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How do I introduce my new baby to my dog?
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Unfortunately, dogs frequently begin to "act up" after a new baby arrives. It is unclear whether these behaviors occur because of "jealousy" or simply because the dog is being deprived of its usual and expected amount of social attention and affection. .

You will want to start reducing the attention that you give your dog 2 or 3 months prior to the baby's arrival.

This will help the dog accept that it is no longer the "focus" of your attention. When the baby comes home, you should ensure that your dog gets sufficient attention.

One tip that can be helpful is that whenever you begin to do something with you baby, you can put the dog in a sit/stay and periodically reward it with a tidbit. This procedure allows the dog to associate pleasant experiences with the baby and gives the dog extra attention when the baby is present.

 

If after the first several days you are still concerned that your dog might harm your baby, a screen door or gate could be fastened at the entrance to the child's room. This precaution allows you to hear the baby but eliminates your dog's access to the room. Also, keep in mind when you take your infant to visit friends or relatives that the dogs encountered there may not be accustomed to an infant in their homes. Baby-sitters should be cautioned not to bring dogs with them to the home of an infant. Tragic incidents have occured when adults mistakenly believed a dog was in the backyard or securely confined away from a baby. Dogs may push open doors and actively investigate the strange sounds and odors of an infant.



Remember, your dog should not have unsupervised access to your baby - EVER. You will want to be especially careful when the baby is screaming, crying, or waving its arms and legs. These actions can elicit a predatory, investigatory, or play-leap reaction by the dog toward the infant. It is wiser to either put the dog in
another room or put the dog in a down/stay several feet away from the baby.

In short, As a new parent, although you should be aware of potential problems, you should not worry excessively about the potential problem of your dog injuring your infant. Most dogs adjust to new babies easily, quietly and without incident. If you are observant of your dog's behavior, and take precautions to introduce dog and baby to each other gradually while your dog is under control, you should be able to avoid accidents or troublesome incidents.

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Establish yourself as \'pack leader\'
written by Rach, February 08, 2007
I don't own a dog, in fact I've never owned one.. But I firmly believe that if you were to establish yourself as the dog's 'pack leader' you'd have no trouble whatsoever bringing home your newborn. Dogs have this incredible sixth sense, and if you are afraid your dog will do something.. your dog most likely will - to protect you, more than anything..
I suggest you practise coming in the door with a baby doll that cries.
I recommend reading 'Cesar's Way' by Cesar Millan, for more information on the psychology of dogs.
Is this very important?
written by maria, February 28, 2007
Anyway, how does it make a difference??
Don't push the dog away!
written by Jody, March 23, 2007
I think one of the worst things you can do is "push the dog away." Some people don't introduce the dog to the child instead they try and keep the dog away from the new baby. They isolate the dog and that's when the dog gets jealous! But I ask who wouldn't get jealous in a situation like that. I think the best thing to do is get the dog involved with the child right from the first day of course always under supervision. Show the dog that the baby is something to be happy about and that it makes you as it's owner happy when the dog gets along well with the child. Another thing is that you should make it clear to yourself how much trust you can put in to your dog. If you can trust you dog blindly then you have absolutely nothing to worry about!
The "Pack Leader" comment is correct!
written by Xyan, June 20, 2007
Rach is right! Cesar points out in his book that dogs view you (and the humans in your house) as members of their "pack".

There is even a section in his book where he writes of this very subject and suggests that you do what a female does in its pack when the pups are borne: she keeps the pups isolated from the pack for the first couple of weeks, then gradually introduces them with supervision. (You should still interact with the dog, but keep the dog out of the baby's room)

Dogs know from the scents and sounds that there is a new "pup" in the pack and will react accordingly. Since YOU should be the Alpha male & female of the household, you must establish that this new "pup" is a part of the Alpha group and the dog will naturally understand and view the baby as a superior in the hierarchy.

Humans try to apply human emotions to dogs and that's where we go wrong. The dog isn't jealous! It just wants to know where its status is with this noisy newcomer to the family. It is YOUR job as the pack leaders to let it know. Reward and show affection to the dog when it acts appropriately; immediately correct the dog when it doesn't.

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