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A recent discussion about the new naming trend of naming babies with Ghetto names brings up a lot of emotions from our readers. We have picked just a couple of comments from our users. What do you think about this new trend?
The term "ghetto" first came into use during the Holocaust, when Jewish people were forced to live under terrible conditions in isolated sections of a city before being taken to be killed in concentration camps. The term is widely used today to describe districts that are largely populated by minority groups living under adverse conditions. Although the term "ghetto" originates from associations with genocide and racism, it has become a common slang term used to describe a district or even a way of life under economic and social pressure. It is not used here to imply any "racist" connotations.
No Offence
Written by therealprinsess, October 30, 2007
Not to put down anyone, but i really hate these made up "ghetto" names that have commas dashes underscores parenthesis and a million other characters these young children make up these days or the ones(rolls her eyes) who name their kids after automobiles and liquor (unless the child was conceived on a drunken night of "ALIZE" in the back of a "Lexis" then i'm sure Alize Lexis would have some sentimental value). Do yourself a favor, if you can't imagine anyone calling your kid Dr. La'queesha or Mr. Jo'Killaquan or Judge Lateenazia or Mayor Hennesy Allure, then your best bet is to go with something the kid won't grow up hating, At least think about the kids' future. Having these fake french ghetto names seriously prejudices others to making their own decisions about what type of person Jo'Killaquan or Dimateeshanda really are just by their names. I'm not being one hundered percent sure but i have yet to come across a successful person with a horrible ghetto name and if they have one, by the grace of god their parent had the decency to give them a decent middle name to act as a nice substitute( Z.John Weathers- First name Zadurakeem). I wouldn't trust them and i would already have a stereotype as to the type of person they were already. Kids stop having Kids and this will solve the problem.sigh... Tatiyana La'Bryne- what the hell does that mean??? it could be a voodoo curse in another language.
About the ghetto names...
Written by Maralee, November 05, 2007
I agree that names should not matter. Unfortunately, they do. Generally, people with ghetto names as described accurately by Erica and Rebecca are from ghetto families and ghetto places.
Why tag your child with that atmosphere for all of his or her life? It makes it very difficult for the person to shake his or her ghetto background, no matter how professional he or she might aspire to become.
I used to work at Bob Evans, and sometimes I would change my name over the phone just for fun and giggles. For sociological purposes, I would change my name to "LaQueesha" or "Uniqua", etc. I would introduce myself and speak to the other person on the phone with my regular, respectable and articulate English (Not with the stereotypical ghetto vernacular). The tone of the person would always change according to the "ghetto" status of my name.
Please don't do that to your child. In my opinion, ghetto names are not respectable names.
What difference does it make?!
Written by Anonymous, November 10, 2007
People make too big of a deal about ghetto names. They just sound uncommon, but how many doctors and lawyers do you have from foreign countries who's names are difficult to pronounce? A lot! And I don't think they loose too much money for it. The real issue is complicated spelling may make it a bit tough - consider a kid may have to teach everyone they meet how to spell their name their entire life! Some people get a kick out of having an original name and others prefer to have one that is really common - you never know what kind of personality your baby will have. Parents should go with their gut feeling and not worry too much about some racist folks that may come along in their child's life - hopefully one day, our kids will not be judged by skin color, financial status or names, but for now that is our reality.
I've seen it all
Written by WIC Lady, November 12, 2007
Comment:
At one of the clinics I work at in a rather rural area, we have a little
girl named Female (Fem-all'-ay)(But the doc already named here here...), twin
boys named Orangejello and Lemonjello (O-ran'-jal-oh and Lee-mon'-jal-oh) (What
was on the breakfast menu) and lots of hyphenated and apostrophized names. We
regularly have mothers who call to add a new baby to their case who don't know
how they are going to spell the child's name and get mad because because we have
to put something in the computer to make the appointment. At our main office in
the district, it's a bigger town, and there are so many made up, pseudo-ethnic
names that it's a nightmare to call people and their children for their
turn.
I have no problem with people naming their children with ethnic
names that have a meaning or are actual names, regardless if I can pronounce
them. That shows pride in who they are and where they come from. Naming your
child after someone with an ethnic name that isn't a part of your own heritage
as a means of honoring that person is fine with me too.
However, naming
your child something that "sounds cool" or was conceived in some drug induced
haze (your own or someone else's), or for your favorite designer, car, music
act, or street slang is setting the child up for failure. Remember that sit-com
where the kid had a friend named Six because that was how many beers it took for
her parents to have sex? Who wants to have a name like that following them
around for the rest of their lives?
I'm currently going round and round
with my husband trying to come up with a girl's name for the child I'm about to
have. We had a boy's name worked out from the beginning, honoring our
grandfathers. We named our daughter for my grandmother, and now we're stuck
looking for a name we like since Octavia is not a name we're too keen on and the
other names are too common. I understand wanting to have a child that stands
out from the rest of the class and not be one of 3 Joshua's or 4 Anne's or
whatever the trendy name is, but there is a point where the name stands out for
the wrong reasons and is detrimental to the child's future.
What do you think ? add your comment.
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