Which combination is the best choice?  The process does not have to be so complicated – follow these helpful guidelines to come up with the name you have been looking for. 

Consider the benefits of a middle name.  The extra name can be an asset to your child in their life, as it can provide them with a choice if they are not happy with their first name.  Statistically, about one in ten people use their middle name instead of the first.  However, this is by far not the only reason.  Middle names can distinguish an individual in a crowd with other people with the same name as theirs.  It can add a nice atmosphere and ring to a first name.  A middle name can help accommodate the wishes of both parents or family and relatives by allowing each to include their choice in the name of the baby.   In addition, the middle name may be chosen for traditional or cultural reasons, such as to honor a family member or to commemorate a name that has been passed down for generations.

When considering a middle name, the most important thing to consider is balance and rhythm.

1.    The number of syllables in each name should vary.  For example, if the first name has one syllable, the middle name can be two or three syllables.  Example: Katie Lynn Thomas.

2.    The beginning of each name should sound different.  The same goes for the endings.  Try to avoid name combinations that rhyme, like Ray Jay Smith – aside from sounding a bit strange, they may become a reason for teasing.

3.    If you have chosen an exotic first name, try to choose a more common middle name, or vise versa.  A name that is easy to pronounce can be paired with a unique sounding middle name.  Your aim is to get the balance of the sound just right.

4.    Acronyms should be considered.  Avoid initials with odd spellings such as “RAT.”

5.    Finally, say the full name to yourself out loud to see how the combination sounds.  Remember, your child will have to hear the name over and over again throughout their lives.

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