having a 12 year old become pregnant is NOT IN A MILLION YEARS part of God's perfect plan. i am christian(presbyterian) and i beleive that God, b/c he already knows what choiced we will make in our lives, is kind and generous by making some pretty awful sitiuations have good outcome. i am in NO MEANS saying you did the right thing, just that you better start praying and hoping that God will forgive you for your mistake and maybe give you a better outcome than you would have by yourself. consider OPEN adoption...it sounds like the way to go, and maybe God is offering it as another solution besides abortion. start praying.....

I know that it whas not a good choice. But I think that making this mistake was part of his plan. Everyone makes mistakes and by the way I don't need to ask him for forgivness over and over. YOu know? I don't have to worry about it anymore. I said I have asked everyone involved for forgivness, didn't I? God was WAY involved, so that includes him too!He died for that reason, to save us from all our sins, big or small. What I did was just like a white lie to him.

JEssi is my identical twin sister, and our boyfriends are identical twins as well! We both dumped them after what happened to her. I don't think mine would do that, but me and jess are really close. We tend to make similar dicisions and maybe Logan and Wess(our boyfriends) are like that too. Don't diss her. We have decided to wait for our perfect guy instead of dating. We will court too. I think this was God's way of telling us we were making wrong decisions. We needed to change our way of living to live more for him.

I am in favor of you having your religious beleifs and following your faith, HOWEVER... You are a child, You both sound like someone brainwashed you. This child's grandparents raising it, so your family can be one of those, oh my mom is my sister and my dad is my grandfather, is that the kind of christian family environment you want this child to be raised in??? Being a CHRISTIAN has nothing to do with you being a child who has no business having sex, courting, dating or having boyfriends!!!! Abortion was invented and discovered for people just like you. Think of all the goals and dreams you will NOT be able to fullfil!!! What about college and having a career? Being independent and making something of yourelf instead of a 13 year old babymaker. It is not ok to bring children into this world when there are choices for you. Choices that will save your child from a life of questions and heartache. You are making the biggest mistake of your life, and it wasn't GOD's plan for you to get naked and have sex with a boy, knowing full well the consequences. It wasn't I'm sure GOD's plan to have this child raised by it's grandparents, or have a mother who hasn't even completely gone through puberty. YOU ARE A KID!!!!! YOU are NOT an ADULT. Someone who is imaprtial to you and your situation. Someone who might be able to talk some sense into you. Sorry to be so harsh, but this surly will ruin many lives!!!!

I believe everyone has a right to their opinion. But to be cruel is not right. This girl is asking for some guidance. Do you really think that people can learn from their mistakes by attacking them? She has already admitted her fault. She is doing what she believes is right for her & her child. It may not be something you would do, but then again you are not her. Deed done. Now she has to deal with the situation at hand. Jesse & Jenni I applaud you in realizing that you made bad choices. Do not listen to the hurtful things people say(and there will be many) Stick to your convictions and talk to your parents when you are facing these problems. Hopefully because of what you are going through now you can talk to others in the same position and give advice without attacking, since you know what it feels like to be on the receiving end. I wish you both all the best! BTW I love the names!

Hey Jessi, Jenni. How's it going? I'm sorry about what all these people have been saying, it isn't right. You know you made a mistake and you alresdy got it right with not only everyone involved, but also with God. That takes alot of courage and I'm proud of you for obeying God. I'm not saying that you getting pregnant was obeying God, but you didn't disobey Him again by not asking forgiveness. And Vanessa, Jessi's right, you only have to ask for forgiveness once, and you don't have to hope He forgives, b/c in His Word He says He will forgive us (I John 1:9). And Kili, you said to think of all the things she won't be able to do b/c of the baby; what about all the things the baby would be kept from doing if she had an abortion. Abortion is murdering you're child, b/c a baby is alive a few WEEKS after conception. But you are right it wasn't God's plan for her to have a baby now, but she made a mistake. We all make mistakes and I bet if you think about it, you've probably made a few yourself.

I hope you the best with your child, Jessi. Numbers 6:24-26