HI FIRST I WANT TO SAY HAVING A BABY IS A VERY GOOD FEELING,I HAVE A SON OF 2 YEARS BUT IT IS NOT ALWAYS EASY AND I AM PREGNANT WITH MY SECOND ONE. ALL I CAN SAY IS JUST RELAX AND COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL, IF HE KNOWS HOW YOU FEEL HE WILL MAYBE ALSO BE READY HE MOST PROBABLY DON'T WANT TO PRESSURE YOU INTO ANYTHING YOUR NOT READY FOR BUT IF HE LOVES YOU.AND MAYBE THAT ONE MAGICAL NIGHT WHO KNOW MAYBE YOUR DREAM WILL COME TRUE....

STRONGS.

One thing to keep in mind is you are only young once. Having a child will make it much more difficult to get an education, travel the world, start a career, etc. My advice is take your time. Why rush into this? Once you are a mother, you are a mother for life. Your childhood will end and you will be an adult responsible for the life of another human being who will completely rely on you for everything. There is no going back, so make sure you are ready.

About your boyfriend: I have no doubt that you love each other. Enough to even consider having a baby together. I am not a traditional or religious person, and don't think that people should feel shame about having a baby outside of marriage. But there is a natural progression to relationships. Having a child with someone ties you together for the rest of your lives, whether the relationship works out or not. If you have a baby, he will always be the father, and therefore you will always be tied to him somehow. Unless you are particularly religious, you may want to try living with this person first to see how compatible you are on a day-in day-out basis.

Lastly, I'm sure you would want to make sure that your baby will be financially taken care of. There is insurance, diapers, food, daycare, rent, gas and car to consider. Will you be able to provide this for your child? Will you be able to stay home with your baby? If not, who will care for your baby while you work? What if your boyfriend bails, would you be able to provide all this on your own?

I am sure that you are going to be a great mother someday. But this is a huge life changing decision. I'm sure you and your boyfriend would want to prepare for success. Give yourself the time you need to be ready financially, emotionally, and in your relationship.

Best of Luck!

hello hun

you sound quite sound. and you hvaen't had sex but yet your talking of wanting a baby i agree with some of the others its hard work i can't say much but i didn't attend school anyway. but i got pregnant at 15 and yeah the father dosn't have anything to do with gracie i found it so hard i didn't have any support but i got there in the end it is the best feelin in the world to have a child and now i am 19 i have another baby on the way and this time round i am actually in a stable realtionship and i actually feel ready. if you need to chat huni im here just pm me anytime love.
best wishes.
xx

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