i've gone through my list of names and these are the only ones i think fit your bill:

Alex
Joshua
Greg/Gregory
Rhys

i also have James on my list, i understand what your saying about Jake/James thing. i think making him do a list is a fab idea.

good luck

I don't think there's anything wrong with the names you have, alltough i think James is best as a middle name. I like Ethan James!
You should definitely make him write a list. How about you both sit down and make a list of a certain number of names then go through them together making a new list or lists. You should sort the ones for 1st names and middle names and either and try to narrow it down until your happy, that's what i do!
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I love Adam James! Goes great with Cameron and Jake (which I also love ). Just wondering, what is Jake's middle name?

Anthony
Blake
Collin (Collen)
Landon (Landen)
Wyatt
Conner
Lincoln (Linken)
Parker
Tyler
Aren
Everett
Jaxon (Jaksen, Jackson)
Jonathan
Joshua
Kayde (Kade)
Kayne (Kaine, Kane)
Kye
Spencer
William
Arthur
Charles
Edward
Gregory
Howard
Leon
Michael
Patrick
Victor

Allison
Amber
April
Ashley
Corin (Korin)
Hailey
Kylie
Marcy
Samantha
Audrey
Autumn
Cameryn (Kameryn)
Katelyn (Kaitlyn, Kaytlyn, Kaitlin)
Kara (Cara)
Meghan
Paige
Ashlyn
Aubrey
Eden (Eaden, Eadin, Eadyn)
Ellanor (Ella)
Kaydence (Cadence)
Kennedy
Maddison
Mara
Patience
Scarlet
Sidney
Taylor (Tailor)
Ann
Cari
Clara (Clare)
Frances
Katherine
Kay
Kayla
Lyn
Rose

Hi, Jeneen!!
Here are some suggestions of names for your baby boy:

Gideon (means great warrior)
Christopher
William
Gabriel
Charles
Wyatt
Sebastian
Richard
Carson
Thomas
Owen
Russell
Walker
Henry
Balthazar
Finnegan
Peter
Simon

this are names that I didn't saw here. so hope this help.
tell if you and your husband like someone.