I need some opinions
By Djcupcake 2 Years, 6 Months Ago
I need just some opinions
OK about 2 years ago I got pregnant. It wasn't a very good or happy pregnancy. Everyone was mad at me. No one supported me (emotionally). At 5 months I started to get an incontrollable cough (which till this day I believe was from the baby pressing on my lungs), I got sick for 2 weeks. So just a bunch of stuff. at 28 weeks in the morning (it had been a pretty good week) while I was making pancakes and my stomach started to hurt. I thought "no way, this must be false labor". So I tried to walk it off for an hour then we went to the hospital and I was ready for labor cause my water had leaked. I spent 16 hours in labor without any meds then they told me they had to do an emergency C-section. They didn't let my husband in. So she was very premie. They took her right away to the NICUU. Her bran and lungs were very underdeveloped so they did 3 blood transfusions. Anyway on the 3rd day they told me it would be best to take her off life support because if she lived she would be pretty much a vegetable. I didn't want that for my child. So we did it.
Now for my question: Should I be really scared/worried about this next pregnancy??? I don't wanna loose another baby
Re:I need some opinions
By mommyfaerie 2 Years, 6 Months Ago
That's so sad. It would be a really terrible thing to have to go through. If I was you, I would try not to worry so much about losing another baby, because it's just added stress that you really don't need. As long as you try to stay calm and relaxed as much as possible and listen to your doctor's advice on things then I'm sure you'll be just fine. Take it easy and don't be so hard on yourself. All you need to think about is having a happy, healthy baby.
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Re:I need some opinions
By gargoyle 2 Years, 6 Months Ago
im so sorry that happend, but try not to worry about it, the more you stress out the worse it is for the baby. just take things more easy and the doc,midwife or hosp will be monitoring you more closely, try to enjoy it i know it will be hard sweet but you can do it and it will go ok good luck take care and keep safe
Re:I need some opinions
By Djcupcake 2 Years, 6 Months Ago
Thank you I feel better. Still a bit nervous but I have been taking it easy not bieng stressed. Hopefully we will have a happy healthy baby. Thank you for your opinions!
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