i'm a total idiot at times..like just recently, i have 3 month old baby and i'm 2 months and a half pregnant...i didnt know you could get pregnant that close togthether but whatever i'm an explorer so i tried it! blehhh.... and my biggest problem is how to do i tell my baby Harper or do i not..i'm confused

Well if the baby is only 3 months I don't believe he will ever really understand the situation even through the entire pregnancy. Children have few memories before the age of 5. You can tell him anything though, he is your baby.

You are NOT an idiot! You just were not informed, you are now :^) Don't say such things to yourself, enough outsiders bash you, you don't need to do it to yourself.

Good Luck!