The best you can do is just be there no matter what and just take the mood swings thats just hormones we all do it lol good luck

i was 17 when i frist got preganant and my bf was 15 and when he found out he was happy and there for us but then he took off my son is now 2 and his dad saw him once is his hole live thats when me and him got back together for a year and now im having his baby again and he took off again so i have to say is that its hard being just a mom with kids and my whole famliy would say its up too you what you want to do so my advice is that if you love her be with her and dont take off on her it hard to not to but as long as you too love each other is good for you and her and the baby so just try to keep her happy any way you can good luck and i hope it all works out

Stick around man and be there for her.

At the least if you don't want to be with her help look after your child because it's not the fathers right to just leave. Two people made this baby and you need to help raise the child.

I'm 19 and due august 13th. my bf was 17 when we found out and has since turned 18. something he's had the hardest time with is trying to understand how exactly i feel at times. in turn i have to remember he's not the one whos pregnant so i cant expect him to get it. for him and you alike life hasnt really been too altered yet. you know youve got a baby on the way and you already care for it and youre excited, but when a woman finds out shes pregnant the maternal gene kicks in right then and her perspective on just about everything changes. that will happen to you, when you see the baby, no sooner. and no matter how much you may think you feel the shift in your life perspectives already you wont fully understand until you actually see and hold your baby. basically right now there is proof with a pregnancy test and ultra sounds, what your gf tells you she feels, seeing her stomach grow, and even feeling the baby move...but your brain wont make that transition until the baby is there for you to see and hold. with the girl because of the hormone changes and feeling the baby from the inside (you cant possibly imagine how that feels) and the various other changes its very real from day one. this 9 month long period in which the two of you have different life perspectives will test the relationship, but its very doable. just keep the communication open. she needs to do her best to realize you arent the pregnant one, and you need to do your best to respect and understand that she is...which entails a lot more than you could ever imagine.

I would like to recommend My blooming belly. It is an ebook which comes with mp3 files which can be listened while doing other things. It is packed with information to help you through your pregnancy. Exercises for YOU During Pregnancy, Recognizing the Signs of Labor, Choosing that Special Name for Your Baby, Tips for a More Comfortable Pregnancy, Better Ways to Prepare for the New Baby, Signs and Symptoms of Miscarriage