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15 and pregnant!
By Deelovesdisco 7 Months, 3 Weeks Ago
Hi everyone. Two months ago, I found out i was pregnant and I am TERRIFIED. my dad is really set on me giving them up for adoption (its twins, both girls.) I've gotten really excited about them. My sister had her son Noah when she was 17 and my mom was 19 when she had me. My boyfriends family has offered to let me move in and help me support the babies if my dad doesn't. I don't want to move out of my dad's house but I love these babies already.
I know there's a lot of consequenses and I'm worried people will call me a slut and call my children a waste of life (That happened to my sister)
Help!
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By Fox of Fire 7 Months, 3 Weeks Ago
Touchy subject that you have to decide yourself. I would say that you should put them up for adoption, but abortions should be a serious thought for you. This has nothing to do with ending lives of babies right now, at the age of 15 you can have serious complications for both the babies and yourself. If you go through with it completely, you could hurt yourself, as well as not give birth to completely healthy babies. Think about it. You're not old enough to be a parent, and you shouldn't be one at the age of 15. Wait at least 5 more years. Go to college, get an education, do something with your life.
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By Clara 7 Months, 3 Weeks Ago
Twin Girls, cute.
I'm 16, nine months pregnant and im having triplets. ABORTION? no, i don't think thats the way to go, thats killing two innocent lives! My dad doesn't approve of mine either but hey i know when he sees his grandchildren he's gunna love them. Plus you are your dads child he will love you no matter what. Yes he says he's mad at you and wont trust you anymore but what can he say or do? what is done is done no turning back. You wuld make a great mother. you have as gud a chance as any other woman right? just cus you're young doesn't mean you cant do it! If ur boyfriends' family is welcoming you and your father isn't supporting you then i wuld go with them and i know its gunna be hard leaving ur dads house but hey you have to grow up now & leave the nest. You are pregnant so now you have to grow up faster. I know i have to. There are collages that have a on site day care that let you take your baby with you and leave them at the day care. Yeah people will call you names and hate on you but you know what "you dont live to please them" just brush your feet off and keep living and hold your head up high. If they call your kids a waste of time or watever just know that you are maturing and growing up faster and have a family and that you are proud of your babies and love them with all your heart. People are always gunna talk & at 15 it will bug you and hurt at times but you'll get through it. I say keep them and love them. be a GREAT mother to them and take gud care of them cus you are their mother and all they have wen they are born. I wish you the best!
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By Liu 7 Months, 3 Weeks Ago
you are too young to bring up the chidren. you are a child ,too.
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By nikicola 7 Months, 3 Weeks Ago
A young mother doesnt make a bad mother but you have to be sure that you can provide for your children, both finacially and emotionally. you say that your boyfriend said that he would support you but you should really be in a position of being able to support yourself. this is a huge desiccion that you are about tomake one that will affect the rest of you life, i hope you make the right choice.
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By tonton74 7 Months, 3 Weeks Ago
First of all let me state this: God made those babies for a reason!! I am 33 years old and I was not able to get pregnant the "normal" way. I had to go through IVF (In Vitro). Abortion? I would hope not. There are way too many women in the world that can not have babies of their own. As long as you take care of yourself and the babeis, everyone should be fine. Have you talked to you Dr about this and the risks of YOU having twins?
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