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Re:15 and pregnant!
By squibby0602 5 Months, 1 Week Ago
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By squibby0602 5 Months, 1 Week Ago
Hiya.I'm not really sure what to say to you,just that if you are unsure whether to have an abortion,then please don't do it.

I got pregnant when I was 17 and had an abortion,which I've regretted from the moment I came out of the operation but I had no support at all,from my parents or my boyfriend,so I did what I thought they wanted me to do,big mistake,cos I'm the one who has had to live with it ever since.
Ultimately it is your choice but as someone who has been there,I know how hard it can be,especially as you are expecting twins and also,think about how hard it will be if you decide to give them up for adoption,to got through the whole pregnancy and the birth just to have them taken away.
There's no reason why you can't do it and be a brilliant mum to your babies.Yes it will be very hard but there is help available and I'm sure your dad will come round in time.Feel lucky that you have the support of your boyfriend and his parents.
Good luck with whatever you decide but just remember,don't let people pressure you,do it for yourself,I learnt the hard way.x
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By kelli_welli_01 5 Months, 1 Week Ago
there are alot of 15 years olds getting pregnant these days and nothing will happen to them if they believe in God he will help them through this i am 4 months pregnant and just turned 16! if you think that abortions are okay you are seriously mistaking....that is something that she will regret for the rest of her life if she does that. her and that baby will be fine as long as she takes care of herself and those baby girls and believes that God will help her through it!! and age has nothing to do with how good of a parent she could be to those baby girls either.
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By kelli_welli_01 5 Months, 1 Week Ago
wow...i am 16 years old and i found out jan. 21st that i was over 2 months pregnant and i am completly scared to death about everything...so i couldnt imagine finding out that i was having twins, but that is a blessing from God! you should be so excited that he has givin you these two wonderful baby girls, and even though everyone says its wrong b/c your so young if you werent meant to have and raise these girls and be a wonderful mother God wouldnt have given them to you....i mean unless you KNOW that you cant give these babys a happy family and a wonderful life and be the best mother you can be then i say keep them. but please....PLEASE do not have an abortion that is the worst mistake you could ever make if you decide you cant do it give them up for adoption there are wonderful people out there who cant have babys and would love to have them, but you can ask anyone thats ever done it....if you get an abortion you will regret it for the rest of your life you will hate yourself!! and its wrong these babys deserve a chance at life!! once your dad gets out of being like completly shocked about all of this he will accept you and these girls...but right now he just really doesnt know what to say or think or do. and if he doesnt come around then i say move in with someone who does support you and is willing to help...your boyfriends parents. dont worry about what other people say or think it doesnt matter what they think...this kind of thing could happen to anyone,, but God chose you. you just have to believe in him and he will get you through this and everything will work out and be okay! and these people saying your too young to be a mom yeah were young but that has nothing to do with how good of a mom we can be....if we try our best we could be better moms than them and half of these women out here!!! and dont worry about things happening to you or those babys b/c everythings going to be okay! my friend just had her baby monday had a good pregnancy and she was so little that she couldnt have the baby so they did a c section,, but you know what she trusted in God and shes oksy and so is the baby....that baby is so healthy and beautiful. and she is just fine shes going home tomorrow...she will have a scar but thats nothing to worry about its so little and they cut you under ur bikini line so dont worry bout havin a scar everyone will be able to see or anything b/c they wont,, but what im trien to get across here is that it doesnt matter youll be okay nothings going to happen to you lol. if you think about it our gparents and great gparents used to all have kids at 15 16 that was normal....and they are just fine! so dont listen to these haters on here b/c its all going to work out for you!!
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By zarra 5 Months Ago
Definitly not abortion!! And who says that your to young to take care of babys? Twins are the best thing you could have! , and dont worry, its not going to completely ruin your life.
My friend was , are you ready, 12 when she had her first child!! 12! She managed to handle it all and now shes in collage doing GREAT! dont worry
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Re:15 and pregnant!
By julie 5 Months Ago
well my aunt she had her daughter at 15 years old and i know she loves her very much and would give her life for her daughters however she would never say that it was easy to rais her baby while she was still a baby herself im not saying going to say what i think you should do but somethings you should think about are
how will you provide for your child
will you be able to finish school
who will take care of the babys while you are at school and work
is the father going to stay part of the babys life
i am not going to say that i think you should keep or give up your children but do think about what would be better for them and not for yourself if you honestly think that keeping them would be best then thats what you should do but at the same time if you think that somebody elese would provide better than you should think about that
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