miss mandy wrote:

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Yo yo yiggity yo! take a chill pill!

First off, this girl does not need to see a shrink as said at the end of Bexie_08's completely pointless comment.

Everyone needs a shrink, honey. Especially a kid who is getting boinked by an adult.

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she asked for ADVICE. GOOD ADVICE. Something that could help her. Not hurt her. You aren't helping at all by saying her BOYFRIEND is a child molester, Bexie.

I told her to take a test and talk to her parents, you are saying that was bad advice?

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for most who commented on this, "You're too young. You aren't mature." It isn't helpful at all.

Um, hello, she is young and immature. Anyone who thinks "pulling out" is a method of birthcontrol is waaaay freakin immature. I knew pulling out was not acceptable when I was 15.

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And as I've been taught through out my life, if you aren't going to say something NICE, or helpful considering this topic, then keep your damn mouth shut.

Well the STFU, you sure were not sending me Christmas wishes.

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LOVE IS LOVE no matter what. I agree she is a bit young.

Yeah, that is the same reasoning chold molesters and pedophiles use.

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And her boyfriend could get into a TON of trouble.

And if he has a brain in his head, he knows that, making the fact that he had sex with her EVEN MORE WRONG!!!

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But, keep in mind that she was mature enough to go get on BC in the first place.

A mature person would do what is right, not what feels good in the moment. A mature person would have thought of all the consequences. A mature person would know to protect themselves against AIDS and other STD's.

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BUT Just because she doesn't live her love life by most standards, does NOT mean it's entirely wrong. But, I do, to some degree believe it is a little off.

I am glad you see that something is not right here. Maybe you should examine that further. Try imagining your 15 year old little girl comeiing to you and telling you that a 20 year old man had sex with her. How would that go?

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She's a sweet girl who was responsible enough to seek out advice right? Instead of not caring and just blowing it off like a lot of kids I knew did when I was in high school. She doesn't even know for sure if she is prego. And she's already seeking advice.

She is a brand new poster, no clue if she is really sweet or anything else. She is seeking info online rather than facing the hard option of telling her parents what is happening to her. She has yet to take a pregnancy test, further avoiding the situation.

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At least try a little to give her the benefit of the doubt. Most of us on here are adults. It's a rough time for her.

It would be less rough if she didn't have an adult having sex with her at home, and another adult online telling her that what he is doing is ok, and love is love, and sending her PM's with god knows what else in them.

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Ariele, I sent you a Private message to your inbox. I was just using this comment section to b!tch at everyone who WASN'T helpful.

Just had to point out that you are a brand new member. You came here and made an ID and only replied to this one post. It seems strange to me that someone would just happen to be searching for a baby name or pregnancy resource, find one, join, and only reply to one post from a teenager who obviously wasn't getting the sympathy she was looking for. Highly suspicious behavior.

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and by the way, I am completely open to taking on anyone who would like to argue with me.
Thanks!

Of course you are. Getting a good argument insures increased traffic. People will come back and post more if there is a good argument going on, and as we all know, teen pregnancy tends to get arguments going around here.

In my opinion,
I dont think it right for people to judge other people.
My husband is 15 yrs. older than I am and I was 17 when I met him, he was 33 and we love eachother so much.
we have a baby girl she is almost 9 mos. old, my husband and I have been together for a little over 2 yrs now.
Also my cousin got pregnant when she was 15 and her boyfriend was 16 but she is an amazing mom to her son and she is only 16.
any way, if you are pregnant do not keep it from your parents whatever you do, they may not be too happy about but your their daughter and they will always love you, they might make you get a job to support your child but thats what all parents do anyway.
Trust me on this my parents were not happy when they heard about my 15 yr. older boyfriend at all, infact they tried to make me move to another state by myself; but he flew to wyoming to get me and we talked to my parents and told them how much we loved eachother so everyone is ok with us now.

If you need to talk just pm me

well im kinda going through your same situation,
im 15 he's 19.
im barely 8weeks into my pregnacy,
but my parents are aware of my situation.
they have been super understanding,
they want me and my boyfriend too get married,
and move in together,
i dont see why not.
ive been with the guy for 2yrs in a half.
we completly agree,
but first i have set a goal for myself,
i plan too graduate high school before my due date,
which is in may.

but as for advice,
i suggest you take a pregnacy test or go get checked.
if postive you should let your parents know first,
trust me it makes a differences if they know first.
set goals for yourself.
like my mom told me,
babies are blessings not tragies.
plz dont consider abortion,
thats such a selfish decsion,
in my opionon id rather be a bad mother,
then a murder in gods eyes.

Oh look, someone brought abortion in to it, another thing to guarentee much attention and a wave of posting.

Question that has nothing really to do with the post, but I'm asking it here anyway:

I've seen talk about people coming on here to just increase the posting. First with the random and pointless argument about names being associated with religion, and now this.

Why would someone come on here and get everyone mad just to keep the posting up?? I noticed the lag too, but a ton of us on here had school start a couple weeks ago, so naturally we wouldn't be on as much, and posting would slow down. And what does the number of people posting have to do with anything? I don't know how websites work, but I'd much rather the posting be slow than have some random people on here starting arguments for the sake of speeding things up.

People make money from the ad's on their site (pay per view and pay per click) and from purchases of products for sale. If you have no traffic on a site, you lose your ad revenue and sales ops.

Some people just don't want to watch their websites die a slow and painful death as people just stop coming. i have seen it happen, and it is not pretty.

I don't know for sure that that is what is happening here, but it seems mighty strange that every time certain arguments start to die down here that someone pops in a advocates children becoming parents, wants to debate abortion, thinks someone is racist, or is so obviously fake it's silly.