I'm sorry to hear that ,
i was in a similar situation but i wasnt pregnant, i suffered for 4 years until i finnaly leave him.
it was very hard i had to leave my job ,home and family,i left my country ,and started all over, alone.
even with all this he kept calling, and i almost got back with him.
The thing is, for you to keep with your decision you must remeber all that u suffered,and value yourself,you don't need anyone to treat you like that.
Remember that,and soon you will feel relief and forget him.
And meet someone much better,
And you have your baby,so be strong and think about you and your baby and what is best for you both.
all the best.

He sounds like an emotional abuser- he's playing on your emotions by refusing to believe it's his (which he obviously does believe it's his), telling you what the name is going to be (ordering you around), telling you it's your fault and then saying sorry. The sorry at the end is always worse to bear becuase you then feel sorry for him and begin to think that he is getting his act together.

I bet at times he is great too? Makes you feel like the relationship is working? This is one of hardest relationships to get out of. Best Wishes

MarleyReese09.09.09 wrote:

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I'm sorry to hear he's being disrespectful and there's so many issues. I'm sixteen and just had a baby in September, and I don't even have this many problems. But anyways, if I were you, I would leave him. He doesn't sound like a winner anywayss. I would obviously get a DNA test when the baby is born so it proves that it's his baby and so he can pay you child support. If you take a "break" with your partner, you should not be sleeping with/seeing other people. Yanno. He doesn't sound like a good guy, honestly. If it were me, I'd be done with him now..

Thanks for responding. I'm definitely done, even though it did take me awhile to realize it. I don't think I'm going to push for child support. I don't want anything to do with him period.

buterfly00 wrote:

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I'm sorry to hear that:( ,
i was in a similar situation but i wasnt pregnant, i suffered for 4 years until i finnaly leave him.
it was very hard i had to leave my job ,home and family,i left my country ,and started all over, alone.
even with all this he kept calling, and i almost got back with him.
The thing is, for you to keep with your decision you must remeber all that u suffered,and value yourself,you don't need anyone to treat you like that.
Remember that,and soon you will feel relief and forget him.
And meet someone much better,:)
And you have your baby,so be strong and think about you and your baby and what is best for you both.
all the best.

I'm sorry you had to go through that. Thanks for responding. :]
I think being pregnant sucks at this point for me. We've had our rocky times and things seemed like they were better. This isn't the situation I want to bring a baby into. But like others said it's better that she doesn't grow up witnessing the love/hate relationship between him and I.

Connor_Rose wrote:

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He sounds like an emotional abuser- he's playing on your emotions by refusing to believe it's his (which he obviously does believe it's his), telling you what the name is going to be (ordering you around), telling you it's your fault and then saying sorry. The sorry at the end is always worse to bear becuase you then feel sorry for him and begin to think that he is getting his act together.

I bet at times he is great too? Makes you feel like the relationship is working? This is one of hardest relationships to get out of. Best Wishes :kiss:

Yes, he's tried saying that he's 'going to change' but I told him that I don't care to waste time with his games. I can admit that I'm having trouble letting go. But it's for the best.
Thanks for responding. :]

Best Wishes