This may sound really wrong but I cannot wait to give birth so that I can start down the long road of getting my figure back. Right now I'm watching my belly go from side to side cuz he decided that it was in the wrong spot and all I want is for him to be out. The bright side is that I have my induction scheduled for 4 days after my due date. The bad news is that it's the day before I have to go to my first day of college. I am so scared that I am gonna have to put school on hold again cuz I can't handle a newborn and academics. I'm just really worried that I won't be good enough as a parent and a student even though I only have to go to one class a week and the rest are online but that is still a few solid hours every day that I have to have my mnd on something that doesn't involve my son. I think that I may be a wee bit over my head. Damn me for having a kid while I still have schooling to do.

School is hard with a baby, especially if it is your first(i don't know if it is for you). I had to go to school right after Wyatt was born too. That being said; You can do it, and I commend you for doing it. allow yourself to get help from friends and family. The fact that you are worried about being a good mom means you will be. As moms it is our job to worry and it will never end. Getting your figure back will not be fun or easy. It is possible to look good again and even rock a bikini, but you will never really look the same, sorry, it changes your body forever. You will be fine, Good luck!!

This is my first baby and I'm really lucky that I can still live at home with my family while I'm in school. The part that I hate is that I'm now 21 and am back in my moms house after being out of it for years. It's also nice to know that I have 3 very competent people to watch the baby when I need it.

While you are waiting for your little one read "Babywise". You can probably get it at your public library or at your local bookstore. This book will make you feel better in raising your little one. It has wonderful advise. Congratulations and good luck with college.

Hey, honey, everything will work out! Even if not in your exact timing! Don't damn yourself; just repent of and learn from your mistakes and look to your bright future! Wow, you not only have your family you grew up with, but a sweet little one to cheer you on as well! Yeah, school may take longer, because you will need to care for him first, but you can finish and you can do it! Appreciate your family, and don't take them for granted. Take one day at a time and enjoy your baby and being a mother! It truly is the best (of course hardest) job in the world! Blessings to you!

Thanks for all that and I can't wait to be a mom. I love my baby already and I don't care what it takes I will always be a mom first. My family has been really great and I'm really happy that my school is working with me too. I know that I have a lot of hard work ahead of me but even if he wasn't planned he's soo worth it. By the way does anyone know a good stretch mark reducing cream that is available in the US cuz i got them bad along my lower belly.