Since when has his mom had anything do say in YOUR pregnancy? Tell her to do one, she has no say what so ever in what you decide to do.

im so sorry to hear that your in this position, but i cant believe some people. im 21 weeks pregnant, i already have two 4 yr olds and a 6 yr old. of course it can be hard but it will soon become your 'normal'. twins are a gift just like any other baby and no matter what happens their your children. if my husband was saying the same to me i would be sending him home to his mum and raising my children myself! i really hope everything works out for you and you get the help and support you need.

I wouldn't give any of them up....it is not faire to you for them to be putting that stress on you...it is your choice and if he or she don't like the decision you make well they have to deal with it.. its your family... its your life...its ur body.... its your decision... in the end how would you feel having to pick what one of your babies to keep,, when you already know you want to keep them both... think about when they get older,,, having to tell the one you kept that they have a twin out there... or what if you can't have kids after the twins,,, do you only want one child???.....well i hope you make the right choice that makes you happy and the one that is your own not others! id keep them both! twiins are blessings just like the rest! you get double the joy,, double the I LOVE YOUS.. double the smiles... double the love!!! good luck!

sounds to me like your mother in law might not have done the best at raising her own kids - given they are in jail.
You need to be a woman and stand up for yourself and your children - you are all they have. If you are going to let your husband give away your children - what else will you let him do? When/if you get pregnant again, will you just give that baby up too? What if he wanted to give up all the children you have? That makes as much sense...
You have no idea how upsetting this is - some people can only wish to have children, and you are willing to give yours away, split them up so your husband doesnt have to take time off work? Thats ridiculous.
You need to be strong and leave this guy - that is not a good father or husband.

dont split up twins tell her you can handel it and just leave it at that you cant spilt them up it's not right so say no adoption

Good luck Cecilia

look , i don't thing this is good for your kids or even for u , the twins have to be together and those babies r urs not for her , some people are doing anything to have just one baby and u have 2 & u want to loose them i don't think so , just think again , think about the future think when they grow up , think when one of them is with u & the other u don't know where think when they start asking & think about your babies , don't think just about u and ur husband and ur mother in law , this is wrong , u r going to do a big mistake that one day u'll cry for it day and night
so please please please don't separate them cause i know that feeling
please do what i'm telling u plz