Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Pro life, pro choice. Teen mom or Married mom it doesn't matter. However, shoving religion down peoples throat and saying pre-marital sex is a sin won't help them. Not everyone is religious. These girls came here for support not to be ridiculed and judged. Maybe they weren't the smartest and maybe you think they should have waited but for pete's sake, keep your cruel, judgemental comments in your head. If you are so inclined to quote the bible, then do so in a kind manner and not in a ridiculing "You are a heathen kind of way". Say your opions, and say them nicely.

(Note: This is coming from someone who was told on this very forum that they were a sinner.)

Hey Girl! I know what your saying about how people shove religion down your throat. But I'm sure you know it was the wrong thing to do. I knew that but I did it any ways. Now I'm married and regret every mistake I made, and I wish I could take it back and could have saved it all for my husband. But don't worry all people make mistakes no one is perfect, but ask god to forgive you, he will. Good Luck with your baby and don't ever regret them!

hey everyone. i think it's important to say that just because we share what we believe we're not shoving it down anyone's troat. plus, what i believe isn't religion, it's a relationship with Christ, my Savior. pre-marrital sex is a sin. that's the truth, i can't help it. I'm not trying to hurt anyone and they all know that they made a mistake. oh, and you are a sinner, but so am i. everyone is. i know that it's hard to face that truth. but it is true. i hope you aren't offended by what i've said, but you probably will be, i'm sorry. i hope you know that i wish you and your children the best.
P.S. God won't here you unless you're His child; unless you have accepted his as your Savior.

People! She probably knows that she did the mistake. She probably realizes that her life will be hard and that she had choice. But again. Intolerance is a sin. Intolerance is stupid.
I say: love and bring up your child the best you can. Live your life the best you can. Do the best you can. Then you'll be doing right.
Good luck to all of you.

kels, I agree, but i don't. I don't think pre-marrital sex is a big sin, unless you're doing it with everyone who smiles at you. if you love someone, i think that's ok. I'm also a cristinan, I love god and everythink, but I don't think that I judge? Do i? I agree with Ellie: intolerance is a sin.
You would also say that monogamy is a sin, but Abraham and Noah had several wives, and they were chosen from God. I know it's a new time, but, hey, that brings new ways. Maybe in this time, the new way is sex before marriage. Com'n, if you love someone...
So I dont think that pre-marrital sex is a big sin.

Riley, in the Old Testament God did allow men to have more than one wife, yes. Testament means law, and that was one way they did things under the old law. We are now under the New Testament, or new law, when Christ died for us. And under the new law, a man is to have only one wife. We are still under that law, and there has been no change. Sex before marriage is wrong. If you don't believe that, that's your choice and your decision to believe and do what you want. But all you have to do is look around at the results of pre-marital sex and see how many problems it is creating. Truth is truth-whether you or I like it or not. And no one can change truth. You may think it's okay to have sex with someone you love. But what happens when next week you don't love him? Or he leaves you. I have known girls who have dated their boyfriends for a year or more and got pregnant and then were left to raise a baby alone. Lots of girls date guys they think they love at the time. Is it okay to have sex with every guy you date because you "love" him? And when you say intolerance, what about if someone murders someone. Should we be tolerant of that if that's what they thought was right? Of course not!