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Ok so here's the truth.. Im sorry.
By traceylovesrj 1 Year, 11 Months Ago
Im a teen fifteen years of age. (I'll be 16 in a few moths) I am engaged (yes I know it's silly at my age) and I am pregnant. I just have been saying I was grown so no one would judge me. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to tell my mom. I was pregnant a year ago and she made me abort it. (My fiance is the father of that baby too) I DONT want to have another abortion no matter WHAT. It really hurts even thinking about it. I'm scared.. I'm still kinda thinking well maybe I'm not pregnant. I've been trying SO HARD to get to the doctor (with out my mom knowing) but, I haven't been able to. My fiance's dad has been trying to take me to even the abortion clincs to get a free pregnancy test and he's been too busy. I don't know what to do. I haven't had a period yet or any thing and I've had a FEW symptoms. I've taken 7 hpt's. Two came up yes+ and the rest were no-. I really just need advice. Please don't be mean..
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Re:Ok so here's the truth.. Im sorry.
By mummers88 1 Year, 11 Months Ago
I was 16 years old when I had my first child. I know what you are going though, but I was in a different situation. NO ONE can force you to abort your baby. You are strong to take on this responsibility, and same with your to-be husband. Talk to some counselling agencies that are pro-life....and they can help you. Not sure where you live, but there are resources everywhere. If you are living at home, and you are being forced to abort your child, that is abuse, and you need to find somewhere else to live. I don't know if you can send messages on here, but I can be a friend from afar and find resources for you. Let me know!
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Re:Ok so here's the truth.. Im sorry.
By nakita_2022 1 Year, 11 Months Ago
It is your choice if you want to keep your baby,,your parents can't force you to abort,,,in the end it all comes down to what you want....you and your boyfriend have the choice not anyone else,,if i were you id go to a walk-in clinic and get a pregnancy test done,,if you are pregnant then you need vitamins and you should start taking them as soon as you find out..if you ever need someone to talk to you can personal message me..hope you make the choice that is best for you and is what you want!
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Re:Ok so here's the truth.. Im sorry.
By traceylovesrj 1 Year, 11 Months Ago
Thank you all for the advice! I really appriciate it good and bad. I am pregnant and taking the prenatal vitamins. I hope I can make this the healthiest pregnancy ever! Lol. Is it normal that I'm having sharp cramp like pains in the area of my ovaries? Some times if I yell or even cough I feel like Ive just been stabbed in that area. Some times I get those pains for no reason at all. Thanks again.(:
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Re:Ok so here's the truth.. Im sorry.
By nakita_2022 1 Year, 11 Months Ago
if i were you id go to the doctor right away just to make sure it is not a tubular pregnancy(when the egg/baby is growing in your falopian tubes)..it is very dangerous if it is not seen right away...I don't want to scare you but it is better to be safe then sorry..
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