How far along do I have to be to tell if its a boy or a girl? I'm dying to know!

About 20 weeks. You can try to figure it out by yourself though

They usually do an ultrasound around 20 weeks and you can find out then

Around 20 weeks.

with my two girls i didnt find out until around 20 weeks, but with my 3 boys i found out at 14 weeks, 12 weeks, and just found out with current pregnancy that its a boy at 11w 6d.....I think it highly depends on how good of an ultrasound machine your doctors office has...

I found out at 10 weeks by using a testing kit you can buy at Walmart/target/CVS etc called Intelligender (intelligender.com). I think it was around $30-

The results are 82% accurate when performed at home, 90% accurate when done in a lab and were 100% accurate for determining the gender of our baby as confirmed by our ultrasound several weeks later.

My guess is that the test is closer to 90% accurate when you do it at home and you are a literate/intelligent person who can read and follow directions carefully.......It's not at all complicated, but you do need to follow the instructions or you'll risk getting false results

Good Luck!

ps- there's also a blood test called tellmepinkorblue.com but it's like $150(+/-) and you have to send the blood splotches off in the mail, etc.