just show her your tough..she'll back down!

Sit down with your husband and talk things through. Your mother in law should not be controlling your life or anyone for that matter. You are in control of your own life. You deserve to have a career as well. Good luck.

There is nothing wrong with staying home with you children when they are young and there is nothing wrong with working when they are young either. Going back to work after my daughter was born was one of the hardest things I have ever done, but I didn't go to college for five years to stay at home either.

If you want to work you should; staying at home when you don't want to would not be good for you or your children. And it has nothing to do with not wanting to be with them. I miss my daughter every day.

My Mother-in-law is the same way. She used to do daycare for my daughter until we got into it one day. She would never listen to me and always underminded me. Since then I have found new daycare and everyone is much happier. I wish I would have stood up to her sooner, but better late than then never. Try talking to your husband, but that didn't really work for me. Then if you ahve to take matters into your own hand, so be it.

Good luck.

You really need to talk to them and let them know how you feel. That just isn't right. No one should try to control any aspet of your life. I hope things get better for you. Good luck!

Wow...
You are not a steriotype(sorry if I spelled that wrong). I would be divorcing that SOB faster than you could say monkey if I were you. It sounds like you are being presured into something you may not want to do. His mum sounds like a real charm to... wow, " I want grandkids and soon." that is horrible. She doesn't care about how you feel or anything. I know this is totally wrong and I am agenst this unless given right cercumstanses (sorry if that is wrong to), but...abortion. Children are supposed to be made out of love, not out of presure. Or, better yet, don't have an abortion. Put the child up for adoption, That'll show em'JKJKJKJK (just kidding) Yah tell your husband about how you feel, and if he realy loved you and you were not just his se* toy, he would understand. Tell your parents to, maybie even move out of the house if you get an answer from your husband that goes something like this,"Screw you" His mother, if she gets mad at you, tell her to go some place ( I have the perfect place in mind)I to am pregnant, but I am not in the same boat as you are (sorry ). You also said that you are a little to young to be pregnant, how old are you? any way, I am glad i could be of servise.

Your friend from Alaska (aka the middle of nowere),
Kaela