We are no looking down on you or judging you. Matthew 7:1 "Do not judge or you too will be judged" If we were we would excpect you to do the same. Matthew 7:2 "For in the same way you judge you will be judged and with the measure you use it will be measured to you." We are witnessing and speaking out for what we believe. We are saying what you did is wrong but are in no means judging you. If you are going to continue to have sex, then yes I will go ahead and judge you, but for now, just know that God loves you even if you might not be his child. If you aren't I would press you to do that. "For God so loved the world that He gave his one and only son so that WHOEVER believes in him will not 'burn up forever in hell' but will live forever in perfect peace with him in heaven."John 3:16 with translation from me

Lizi is right

but what about the teens that are raped this makes people like me feel a lil bad then what you should really think about things be for you put it out there i'm 16 and pregnant and proud
i felt bad enough for my self but i have a great support system so my baby will be just fine

Dededarling, hey- if you were raped, that's a whole different story. It was not your choice and you can't help it. I am so sorry it happened to you. Have you reported the person who did it? Please do so if you haven't! He doesn't deserve to be free to do it again to someone else! And I am glad you have a great support system, because you need it. I hope everything will work out for you. If you need to talk, let me know!

trentons_mommy,

can iask you a very personal question? you say you loved him and wanted to give him all of you, right? are you still together? was he your first? do you think you will be with him as a married woman and man 5 years from now?
i hear so many teens say that love is the motivation for sex but is it the mature adult love that forms a lasting committment or a type of love that is here for now and gone in 6 months?

i too was in love withmy high school sweetheart and we had sex. after graduation i became pregnant and we married. it only lasted less than 2 years. marriedat 18, baby at 19 and divorced at 20.
i remarried at 26 and the biggest regret i have is that i could not give my sam all of me.......he even told me he wished i had been his first and only and he was 30 at the time!
mature love is completely different. we have been together a long time and still in love and yes we went thru alot but maturity enabled us to honor our committment.
and yes, regrettfully so, i have too many memories of others.
you neverforget who you have had sex with and i still come across the old boyfriends and it is embarrassing now.

media does influence teens and adults re sex, music does, friends too and alcohol!!!! thank God you chose life for your child! ijust got an email prayer request for a 20 year old that just had an abortion, was admitted for bleeding and infection.
also, the next time, you maynot get pregnant but what about std's? condoms now won't protect you from many of them........
congratulations by the way!