my b/f parents are very controlling! when they found out i was pregnant they automatically assumed i was moving in w/ them and everything would be ok! im only 17 and dont want to leave my mom! they have boughten me a car and already have the nusery set up! we cant do anything w/o them knowing every detail! its starting to annoy me and my b/f but when he brought it up to them they started yelling and saying that we dont respect them and that! we do appreciate everything there doing but they wont let us be the parents to OUR BABY! what can i do? i dont know how much longer i can stand them!!!!

I thought you said you were getting married. Won't you and your husband then be having a place of your own and be away from both of your parents?

were only 17! were not getting maried till next summer! which means i will be living w/ them for a yr! in order to get married at our age we have to talk to a judge and get a bunch of papers signed! so were just going to wait till were both 18!

Well first of all let me just say I did not see anything in your posting about you getting married..and to that I think you should take your time you are only 17 and just because you are having his baby does not mean you have to hurry up and marry the guy!! But if it somthing you WANT to do then go for it!! As for the question at hand..why don't you both just sit down and have a "family meeting" with both your mom and his parents and try to come to a compromise like you stay with your mom during the week and his parents on the weekends so that way both families have time with the baby and you will still have your mom(who you WILL need) for most of the time. well good luck to what ever you decide!!

i love my b/f and were not getting married just cuz were having a baby! if that was the case we could do it now....after getting thru the papers & everything! i love Jordon(my b/f) and am getting married b/c of that!

if we try to sit down w/ them they go crazy on us! right now im splitting my time between his house and my house! we BOTH will stay at my house then stay @ his house....back & forth, back & forth! me and my mom both agree it might be better to stay w/ them b/c they have more money then we do and not so many ppl but were both not sure! i think im just gonna continue doing what im doing now till im sure of my decision!

If you want to stay at home with your mum, then you stay there. No one can make you move in with his parents- just tell them straight you dont want to, even if they scream and shout! Whats the worst they can do, you need to stand up to them and tell them how you feel and what you want- your going to be a mum soon, so you need to do what is best for your unborn child! Once your baby arrives they will come around after all its their grandchild.

It doesnt matter how much money they have or if they have more money then your mum, money isnt everything and it doesnt mean if they have more money your child will have a better life! Your child will benefit more from having a loving/stable enviroment where you will both be happy, if you wont have this at your b.f's parents house then you need to stay at home with your mum.. if your not happy or baby will not be happy just remember that! If your going to get the help/support and chance to bring your own baby up how you want to by staying at your mums house, then i think that will be best for you and your baby.