I'm in a very bad situation right now. I have six girls, August Hope (13) Reece Hannah (10) Savannah and Poppy Rose (2) and Jasmine Lilly (1). I had my first daughter August (Aggie) when I was 14, and her father has never been present in her life. I met my husband in high school, when he was a freshmen in college. He was the only father Aggie ever knew. Andrew Hunter Hart and I got married when I was 18 and had Reece, Savannah, Poppy and Jasmine. When I was two months pregnant Andrew was working at the hospital where he was a doctor, when he left he was hit by a drunk driver and died instantly.
I'm seven months pregnant with a little girl and I'm 27, my daughters have lost their father. We're OK financially but emotionally the house is broke.
Any advice or kind words are welcome.

My heart goes out to you... I can only imagine what you are going through right now. I don't think I could feel a greater pain than loosing my husband (we don' have children yet). Please take solace in your children and seek support from your community: family & friends in taking care of yourself emotionally and helping your children cope with their loss as well. If you feel like there is not enough or the right kind of help from the community consider seeing a therapist who specializes in grief and loss to help you through this time. From what you have said about your life it is clear that you are a strong and corageous woman but there is nothing wrong seek all the suport you can in times like these! Time won't cure this kind of pain but it will soften it and your family will be ok. Best of everything to you!!!

I am so sorry to hear what happend to your husband. My prayers are with you and your family! Maybe your friends and family will help you through with raising your daughters. I know you definitly have your hands full! Just stay positive and it will all work out!

Hi, it's me Emma.
thank you for giving me your email adress and asking if i wanted to talk, but I don't have an email adress. I can talk to you like this though. My husband's name was Clayton. I met him in the sixth grade. My friends always told me that we were going to end up together someday, even though we were not that tight. I am pregnant with our first child and only child, a girl. What I am realy worried about is that when I have the baby, she will remind me of to much of Clayton and I would get even more depressed than I am now.anyway that was a little info, if you would like to know more, just come back to that page and leave me a note and i will get back to you.


-Emma

thank you, just got your message to. I know I sound a little crazy when i say this, but the situation is all the more harder when you have bin in love with him longer than you should. You are probibly wondering what the heck I mean by now, but I will explain. When I met Clayton in the sixth grade, I fell in love with him. i didn't know it at first, but then I realized it. But that is the logic to my madness, yes. It is just so very hard to give up on a love that has lasted that long.


-Emma
By the way...
I am so sorry for your own loss. Your daughters must be in a whole world of pain. A friend once told me that there was a seperate world for children, and that when something happened, it was much more tragic for them. You must miss your husband, without a doubt. You two must have realy bin in love.

Sorry if this is taking a long time to get to you, but i am an awfully slow typer,

Emma