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when it rains it pours
By lilyA 2 Months Ago
..just when it seemed all was steadily in a weird way getting better, Gabe was finally home and doing well, Rebeca was pulling up her math grades, Jacxxx was becoming closer with Jamie and Natty was back to school school school.
i dont even know what to do. and i theres only been 3 times besides this i've ever been so distraught. Natty drives home with Jamie as always so theres no surprise, the doctor said Gabe could go out today so i brought him out to meet natty and jamie. until i was met with Jamie slamming a door screaming you stupid whore stay away from me and natty running into my arms just bawling. i ran inside and put Gabe in his carrier because i had NO idea what was going on. i first met with Natty who was just basicly drowning in her own tears and she wouldnt tell what was going on so i went to Jamie and asked him than i got the whole story to make it short it was something a long the lines of Natty had sex some random guy, after i spilled the news of Jamies side i asked natty she said that she was raped i told her out of anger to never cheat on my son and if she was telling the truth she'd go to the ER so she left. i went over there about 2 hours after she left and they confirmed she had been raped. it shook me up so horribly i cant stand it. the doctor calculated that she was ovulating so theres a high chance she could be preganant. after i went back home and i dropped Gabe Jacxx and Rebeca with a neighbor. and i took Jamie to the hosp with me. the doctors told him everything and for the first time in a very long time he cried. i left jamie there..and he just sat there holding her.

sorry for you making you read this but i just needed to say it what should i do? i'm shaking and its not even me or my own blood child!
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Re:when it rains it pours
By Nonny 2 Months Ago
Oh Lily,

How terrible! It is such a violation of a person!
My heart goes out to Natty and to all of you.
Such heartache brought on by a senseless act of violence against her.
Nothing can prepare us how to react in this type of crisis.
You did the right thing telling her to go to the ER.
Hopefully, there is a rape crisis outreach available for support.

My prayers are with all of you,
Nonny
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Re:when it rains it pours
By MOM2B 2 Months Ago
that is very sad..if you dont mind me asking how long have they been dating? and how old is she?..does she know who raped her? she should press charges? if she is pregnant what is she going to do...please get back to me I feel real bad and very concerned.
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By lilyA 2 Months Ago
Jamie and Natty have been dating since 7th grade and there now almost in 11th.
Jamie and Natty are both 16
Natty says it between two kids the doctor took samples and will be testing the 2 kids Natty thinks it is
If Natty is pregnant we will be keeping him/her and Jamie would like to adopt him/her as his own.
we will be pressing charges!
and we are already prepared if she is pregnant the doctor says there is a very high chance so i'm just preparing myself and Natty to hear the lip service
thanks for your concern
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By Kelsie 2 Months Ago
I know exactly how it feels to be violated like that. I'm only 14 but I'm pregnant and its because I got raped. Natty REALLY needs all the support and help she can get, especially if she IS pregnant. It's incredibly hard to cope with and there's nothing more difficult than being shunned because of that. I must say, your son is really nice to adopt the baby even though it isnt his. Please keep us posted, and I'll keep you in my prayers.
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Re:when it rains it pours
By lilyA 2 Months Ago
yes of course i will love her the same
i got pregnant when i was 17 (not out of rape) we will love him/her. she will probaly be pregnant but she will still live with us and so will the baby
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