Help me please im 17 years old and im 3 weeks pregnant.... my friends tell me that havin a baby at this age is goin to hurt my future...... everybody is telling me to abort...... wat should I do because sometimes I really want this baby and sometimes I just don't.....

hi there,

i cant even imagine what you must be going through right now, and i know your so young, and life is going to change for you, but i just think its wrong to kill a life..

youve probably made some bad decisions and life will continue to be hard for you, but your child will always be there right next to you, holding your hand through it all..

hope this helps

if you are still in school talk to your councler or school nurse they may be able to help you find a good clinic that will help you with all your options.. if your not in school still look in your local phone book for health clinics.. and please tell your parents they may have a few things to say that might help.

I agree with Erica Jane. It's wrong to kill a life. Even if you decide not to keep the baby you could still have it and put the baby up for adoption. There are so many families who would love the chance to have a child.

You're friends can't make a decision like this for you. Listen to your heart.

Babies are a gift from God. Only God decides if someone should live or die. It's not our decision to make. Trust in Him and He will help you through this difficult time. I know you're young but with His help you and your baby will be fine.

I hope I could help you.

I think you should listen to your heart and do what is best for you, dont listen to everyone else at what they think you should do- they are not you!

Only you will know deep down what is best for you and your unborn baby. You say you are only 3wks pregnant, which is very early so you have lots of time to decide on your future.
A baby needs alot of your attendion, love & a stable enviroment, they need their mum 24/7 especially when they are newborn babies.
If you dont think you can offer your child this then put your baby up for adoption, they are plently of people out there that can offer your child everything he/she needs.

Just follow your heart & not your head!

I agree with some of what everyone has said! I was 19 turning 20 with my first and I know that it is very hard but I did it! I don't believe in abortions at all!!! And with adoptions my mom did it with the baby she had b4 me she cries every year on his bday! IDK if I could do that! But listen to yourself sit and really think what is the absolute best thing to do for you and your unborn child is!! Do what is in your heart!!!!