Okay well tonight at dinner when we told everyone, it was literaly everyone, my dad, his girl friend, her adopted daughter Diana, my little brother Gary, Ryan's mom,Ryan's dad, Ryan, brothers Gerard, Jared-James, Lexington and Landon and Ryan's sister's, Marla-Beth, Ryan's Aunt, Ryan's Uncle, and Bethany and Gerard's girlfriend, Kasitee.

It was really kind of okay like I got up three times to puke during the meal and when I told everyone they like choked but it was basicly okay until the end when all the adults were out and Gerard's girlfriend walked past me and said,"Okay little Miss saluditorian, your really smart, at least I actually know how to use Contraceptive". And after she said that I burst into tears.

Her older sister was validictorian and only by a .5 of point so she always has to say something about it, should I say anything back? Am I just an overly cliche' overly emotional pregnant woman?

thats harsh, i would have said something back.

i think that's rude. accidents happen. my first was definetly a surprise. don't worry about her, by the time your baby's born, she'll be jealous cause she doesnt get to have one yet.

Who is she to judge you? She's not anyone of any importance or that you need approval from. As long as your parents and his parents and the 2 of you are on board with everything then she needs to go jump in a lake. Sounds to me like she's really jealous of you if she needs to be so petty. She's just showing what kind of person she really is. Besides whose to say she'll even be around in 6 months, they may very well break up. If I were you I'd let it go, expect more snarky remarks from her, and be prepared with a mature comment for future run ins. You could also just stare at her and say nothing, she'll get tired of that in a hurry since she won't be causing any drama. I do that to my DH's aunt and cousin when they get rude, I think it upsets them more than if I give them a reason to get drama going. Don't let it worry you one way or another though, just enjoy your pregnancy, your baby and your boyfriend, everything else is trivial

She sounds like a very immature teenager.

Maybe she's jealous of your boyfriend or maybe she is carrying out the little rival of you and her sister. Whatever it is don't listen to her and don't let those stupid little things ruin your pregnancy before you know it you'll be up all night with a little baby.