I say wait simply for the stress factor. Finish school, get a job, get a car (keep a child in mind when buying one). Having a baby by itself can be very stressful at the same time as wonderful. Anything you can do to reduce that will only help your marriage in the end. Looking for a job and worrying about money is only exaggerated when you are sleep deprived and your hubby will feel that! Good luck and I'm sure you will be fine. You could always just stop using protection and not really "try", but just see what happens!

I say that when its meant to happen its meant to happen. i tried for about a year and had no luck then i almost gave up on it and what do you know i got pregnant. just try not to get your hopes up that youre going to conceive the first time you try just keep your cool and everything will happen when it should happen.

Thanks! Everyone is really giving me great advice. I am going to wait because I dont want to be stressed out when I should be happy that I'm pregnant. I want to know that I am safe at my new job and I like it (Where ever I might work), I want to get a new car, help my husband out with some bills and make sure we are comfortable to have one. I want to buy my baby nice things for its room and clothes toys, all of that good stuff and not struggle with buying it. You guys know what I mean? But anyways thanks so much for the advice It really helps me see that we have plenty of time and I have the time to get the things that I really need first. Thanks everyone who has helped me!

Hi iluvandy! I know how you feel. Me and my husband want a baby too. It sounds like you've got everything worked out already. I wish you the best. Good luck!

You did not list how old you are, but it sounds like maybe around your mid tewnties. I would definatley finish school so you have a fall back, but it sounds like you are smart enough to know that. Just relax. Have fun as a married couple. Finish school, get you a new car and get used to the payment every month. Get settled in a home so you dont have to worry about that. Owning a home or a car, you know that it is a good idea to have money put away for things that come up that you weren't expecting, it is no different with a child. Doctors appts, dentist, glasses if they need them. Birthdays, christmas, and of course diapers and formula.
In my opinion there is no rush. There is a very rare chance that you will NOT be able to get pregnant. Just have fun and be young and when your really ready, you will have no doubts.

iluvandy - I know you told me before that you planned on naming a little boy Hunter Andrew Cade (adorable name) but what are thinking about naming a little girl?

Best wishes,
T