do you think that getting pregnant at 16 and having it 2months before i turn 17 is bad? becuz i feel as if im ready. and i have a solid plan. please message me for imputs.

i know exactly how your feeling. i was 16 when i got pregnant but i had a miscarriage with twins. im 18 now and ever since then ive wanted a baby. but i think you should wait. and wait for someone who you truly love and know they will always be there for you and your baby.

edited to delete my comment since I read in another post that you are already pregnant.

I think that you should wait until you are finished high school and perhaps college. You have plenty of time to have children since you are only 16.

Here is the funny thing about age. When you are 16 you truely think you feel this way and are truely ready and you might be. But you have no idea what is ahead of you and what your life could be like if you wait. I had my first child at 27 and I wouldn't change a thing! You can't even imagine how much fun your late teens and early 20's are! College was the most amazing time and i can't even begin to tell you about the fun I had! It is where I met my husband and we were married for 5 years before we had our son. Go out, do things, meet people, travel etc... I now do nothing that is not kid related! I am fine with that now because I was able to experience what you should when you are young and I have an amazing marriage. I'm 31 now and will be having our second child in Auguest. Waiting until you are older to have kids is not going to hurt you at all! There is no down side to it! There are very few things in life where you can say that, trust me. Having a kid has down sides. You will loose out on experiences that you could have if you don't have a child. Don't say that is fine because you will be having different experiences, because if you waited, you could have both!

honey in my opinion no one is ever ready to have a baby. no matter how old they are! i'm only 18 but i thought i was ready too and then everything hit me like a ton of bricks and i know i'm not ready but now that i am pregnant i have to make my self ready. please just wait until you are out of school and have a home to have that baby in, and a man that is going to love you and that child with all his heart.