HEY ABOUT KEEPING YOUR BABY I THINK THAT IS A DECISION YOU SHOULD ONLY MAKE I AM 18 YEARS OLD EXPECTING A FIRST CHILD DUE IN 6 NOVEMBER AND IM LIVING WITH MY BOYFRIEND BUT IT IS QUITE DIFFICULT BECAUSE YOU DONT ALWAYS DECIDE ON EVERITYHING AS FOR YOU I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT ABORTION EVEN WHEN I WAS GOING TO SEPARATE FROM MY BOYFRIEND BUT WE NEVER SEPARATED I THINK ABORTION IS NOT THE RIGHT CHOICE EVEN IF YOUR A SINGLE MOTHER BUT WHAT YOU MAKE OF YUR LIFE IS YOURS GOOD LUCK AND WBASAP.

Being 19 is kinda young but I got preaganet at 18 and am 19 now with an 11 month old and 4 months preganet with my second and the father left me after he found out about the second one.. I am a single mother working to show my daughter that you can do anything on your own if you just try.. I thought about giving my daughter up due to when we found out we were expecting I was not working and her father had just had a bad motorcycle accident and was in a neck brace and out of work but family does help out.. Tell your family there are only 2 ways they can take good or bad, but no matter what happens they will always love you.. The best part about it all is when you wake up in the morning and you hear them calling out mommy.. Think about it and you will know what to do

look here sweety.. i have a baby and my baby is doing just fine without his father.. when i got pregnant his dad didnt want nothing to do with him and i was like whatever then and i was only 16 years old at the time.. i finish hs i went to colloge i graduated from colloge and now am doin just find i found a husband that took in my baby to his life and now were expectin our second child and were happy.. theres alot of guys out there that would want you and your baby and even give you and your child a better life.. so think bout it twice before you give up your babies life alright..

Had it been my father's choice, I would have been aborted. But my mother refused to go through will it, despite his advice (He too left her when he found out she was pregnant). Her life wasn't always easy as a single parent, but she made it work for me. I know that when she looks at me, she is so thankful for the choice that she made. I promise I am not judging you, I just want to share my heart. Abortion is murder, period (this may make some people angry, but children in the womb are very much alive, so it is true). When I looked at my son on the ultrasound (he wasn't even an inch long yet) for the first time, I remember thinking "Wow, that's a little human being in there!". A child has a heartbeat after just 7 days. Have you listened to the baby's heartbeat or seen the child on the ultrasound yet? It is amazing & I advice that you experience it. Not to metion, allow the baby the right for you to watch it moving around, pulling it's tiny hands to it's mouth & being ALIVE! I believe that God is the only one who should decide if a human being's life is to be taken, not us. I know your situation is so hard, and it breaks my heart that this has happened to you. This is a decision you cannot take back if you go through with it though. I believe it is one you would regret as well. There is always the option of adoption if you really do not want to be a parent. There are plenty of wonderful people waiting on adoption lists & praying for a child to love & care for. If you don't want to raise the baby yourself, then allow someone else the privilege of doing so (you can choose to stay in contact with them or not). One of my very best friends was in your exact situation. She chose to keep her son & is raising him on her own. She told me recently that though she wished things could have been different, she would not trade her son for anything in the world. She was afraid of being a bad mother, but she is an excellent mom! Also know that in later years, my mother did remarry. My Step-father has became the most excellent grand-father to my son. So know that this current situation can change altogether in years to come & you may not be alone raising your child. When I look at my husband & son (& I am pregant with our second child) I am grateful to my mother for choosing to give me the chance to live. I hope you do the same for the precious gift growing inside of you. I wish you (& the baby) wonderful, happy lives. God bless.

p.s-My sympathies are with you in your situation. Know that God can heal all things if you allow Him to.

p.p.s--Don't let this baby's father's bad choice cause this child not to live. That's not fair to the baby or to you. (I want to add that recently my father & I have made amends. He has apologized & truely regrets walking out on me. Through God's help, I have forgiven my father & we are working on building a relationship from here. It's taken a long time, but as I said: God can heal ALL things! And I have a wonderful life, despite my past.) You would be suprised at the difference that a loving mother can make!!!!!!!

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OMG! I watched that video and it is AWFUL! I cant believe anyone would do this kind of stuff to a pitiful little baby! Did you see how small it was?

I KNOW!! how awful!!