hey ladies,
OKAY oh dear it's crazy twins two okay wow I 've never been so close to punching my self in the face I can't believe I did that two, two little babies are going to come into this world with half my chromozomes which is crazy. What if they look like me? That would creep me out.
I'm going crazy, I don't think I'll be able to deal with two, I remember when I was young and my younger twin brothers we're small how much work they were.
PLEASE HELP
I'm going to go insane, I don't think I can do it, I can't raise a kid never the less two!
I want out!
Twins that's like an instant family, Natalia only has two kids in her family and we're starting out with two.
I'm so afraid!

peace love and thanks,Ryan

Dont be scared!! My husband is dying to have twins, so I think you are really really lucky!! You will figure it all out, you will get a routine and everything will work out. Try to enjoy it and dont worry so much. Double the FUN right?!?!?

Calm down! You and Natalia will be fine. It will be twice the work, and twice the love.

Natalia mentioned that she asked your Mom for advice and your Mom wouldn't tell her anything; told her she had to figure it out for herself. That seemed a little harsh to me. Is there any way you could talk to your Mom and get her to help Natalia prepare for twins? Not only would it make you and natalia feel more prepared, it would also be a great way for your Mom to bond with Natalia and the babies. You are all going to be a family now! It's important to support each other as much as possible.

Good Luck! It sounds like you'll be a good Daddy

Calm down my dear, although I know it is easier said than done. Just take this one day at a time. Let it soak in, and keep reminding yourself what a miracle and a blessing this truly is. Everything WILL work out, just do what you can do today, and tomorrow will bring it's own challenges and triumphs.....one day at a time. Surround yourself with a good support system, and continue to tell yourself..." I can do this, this is going to work out!"

yeah but what if it's two girls???
Then they'd go through their whole girl thing at the same time and the house will be so emotional and what if they like the same guy?
Or what if there really beautiful and get taken advantage by boys?
I mean guys love twins.
and college sending two kids to college the same time would burn whole through our pockets like crazy we'd be in debt!!!!

I really don't think I can help Natalia bring twins into this world.

Okay I've never told Natalia this but now she'll know, my mom doesn't like her...AT ALL. I know it's mean but it's true, she calls her a bastard baby barer because she doesn't want to marry me, which isn't true I don't want to marry her even though I love her SOOO much, I have no interest in being married. And I'd never tell my mom that but Natalia really doesn't love my mom either because it's her fault that i'm such a "momma's boy"!