I had a miscarriage, can anyone give me advice or anything to try to make this easier? I am seriously down.

If you are a believer in prayer then pray god heals you. When you feel like crying, do it. tears are God's way of washing away the pain. Phillipians 4:13 says, "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength".

If you do not have God then please know that it is nothing you have done. Usually this happenes when something is wrong with the babe. Take the time to grieve the loss of your child. eventually it is a bit easier, but you don't forget.
bless you.

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I felt touched by your message even though I cannot speak from experience. Just know that everything does happen for a reason and right now it doesnt seem like that...but in time it will. I am very sorry for your loss. God bless you.

I just had a miscarriage last week, so I can say that I know how you feel! My husband and I were both very upset, and he was the only person I had to talk to about it because our family lives so far away, and because it was my first, I didn't want to tell them over the phone. It's very sad. I have found some comfort in reading about everyone who has gone through the same thing.
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That website helped me alot. Talking to other people who have gone through the same thing has also helped. Knowing that I can try again as soon as i feel up to it also has helped, i still find myself walking through baby isles at the store to see what i can find. This upsets my husband, but helps me, because i know im not going to give up. Im sorry for your pain, and feel free to ask anything. Be strong, this stuff takes time!

I had a miscarriage when I was five weeks along. It was devastating. To lose something with so much promise that you created out of love is terrible. All you can do is allow yourself to grieve for that baby and the dreams that came with it. Do not shut yourself off from others, allow those you love to comfort you. Suzie is absolutely right, there was something wrong with that baby and it was not viable, this has nothing to do with you or anything you did or didn't do. Most important, don't give up hope. Don't wait to start trying again, there is no medical reason why you can't get pregnant right away. I conceived my daughter 16 days after my miscarriage and she is the most glorious creature imaginable. I know if I didn't lose my first baby, I wouldn't have her. There is a reason for everything and you may never know the reason for this but trust that as much as it hurts, it is for the best. You know that you can get pregnant and that is a great first step.

i'm realy sorry for what you went through i cant tell you i know how you feel. But everything in this world happens for a reasson I believe that all babies are angels sent down from heaven to earth to be cared for by us and maybe god loved your little one so much that ha decided to keep him or her with him in Heaven wher it will always be okay and will never feel a ounce of pain or sufering.