Hello everyone. I was feeling kind've down an just wanted some feedback. Around december 2007 I became pregnant by my then BF of 2 1/2 years(didnt tell my parents).I decided that I really wasnt ready so around march I had an abortion. It was really stressful an I promised myself I would never go through anything like that again.

Well, I moved in July an me an the then BF split, and i hadnt had sex since the abortion. Well I ran into one of my old classmates and we started talking an one thing led to some others (not proud of). But I swear we were SUPER careful because I didnt wanna go through the whole pregnancy ordeal again. At the end of July my period was due and it didnt come. But i've ALWAYS been irregular so it didnt bother me. Well then came the nipple tenderness so I took a pregnancy test about 3 weeks ago an damnit im pregnant again an im only 20!!

I mean, he's my boyfriend now and all and the relationship is going great. He's estatic about the whole thing (it will be his first). But im just sooo confused. I feel like God had it out for me or something! How could this be? Then on top of things, he was a foster child his mom died when he was young and never knew his father, so this child means the world to him, literally!

My main concern is how will my family feel about it. My dads a minister but he's very understanding an i'd rather tell him than mom. She had me at 18 so you'd think she'd be understanding right? My family have all met the "baby's dad" and they love him. But it's only been two months?!? Will they think i'm a whore. I'm usually the very responsible one, an as a teenage i always excelled because I knew everyone was depending on me to make something of myself. Now I feel like I let everyone down!

It doesn't matter what your family thinks. What do YOU think? How do YOU feel?
Even if they're mad now, everyone welcomes a new addition to the family, eventually.
....I hope I don't sound insensitive....I'm not. You'll make the right choice.

it sounds like you might be in shock a little but dont worry everyone loves a baby. it might be a little early but i am sure they will get over that if you and the baby dad are happy than thats the most importaint thing it will all fall into place.

Dont worry girly! This is your decision, not your boyfriend, not your parents, no one elses but yours! You can do it, I promise you. I am only 21 and almost 6 months pregnant with twin girls. It will be hard at first but you have tons of loving people how love and care about you. At the very least, you will never have to worry about him not taking in intrest in your child's life.

Hey now, this is your family. Your family will love and support you I promise. Your parents wont think you are a whore. Your 20 right? You are old enough now that you can make your own decisons. It is confusing right now but it will get better, I promise.