Absolutely Brieal. I have known others who lost a child in infancy that feel the same way as you do.
From some of your earlier posts I see you beleve in a higher power. Turn it over to that power. Just hand it over along with the fear and dread and guilt and all those negative feelings. Enjoy this time. Be happy and enjoy every single part of it, even the backaches, swollen ankles and puking. LOL Just keep rubbing that belly and know you have this living little person inside.
Bless you!!

i know exactly how you feel, i had a son Feb 9 2007, and he passed the same day. i was so worried about my next son being born, if something bad would happen. i felt like i couldnt do it. but i did. i had a beautiful boy on July 10 2008. he's almost 2 months now and doing very well. you two be fine. i found that this experience made me love my children more, watch them more closely, spend more time with them, and hold them more. enjoy it, and dont be scared. it will work out.

IT IS VERY NORMAL!!I WAS REALLY WORRY ABOUT THIS WITH MY FIRST BECAUSE MY COUSIN HAD A BABY PASS AT 6 MONTHS IT HIT US ALL VERY HARD(I WAS A JR IN HIGH SCHOOL). UP UNTIL THEN I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW ABOUT SIDS OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT AND IT MADE ME WORRY ABOUT THAT HAPPENING TO ONE OF MY KIDS WHEN I STARTED HAVING KIDS.I HAD TO TELL MYSELF THAT GOD HAS A PLAN AND A REASON FOR EVERYTHING TO HAPPEN AND I HAD TO LEAVE IT IN HIS HANDS AND ONCE I DID THIS I HAD PEACE AND STARTED ENJOYING MY KIDS.AND YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE 2 OLDER KIDS THAT ARE HEATHLY AND HAPPY YOU MUST BE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT! I KNOW IT WILL BE HARD TO NOT BE OVERLY PROTECTIVE WITH THIS ONE BUT TRY TO FIND A BALANCE BETWEEN OVER PROTECTIVE AND CARELESS. JUST TRY TO ENJOY YOUR BABY AS I'M SURE YOU KNOW WITHYOUR OLDER 2 THAT IT PASSES BY TO FAST.HERE IS THE MOTTO I LIVE MY LIFE BY- IF HE BRINGS YOU TO IT HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT. HE HAS A PLAN FOR EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING. THERE IS SOME REASON THAT YOUR LITTLE BOY WAS CALLED BACK TO HEAVEN YOU MAY NOT EVER KNOW WHAT IT WAS BUT NOTHING JUST HAPPENS IT HAS A PURPOSE! HOPE THIS HELPS IN SOME WAY. FEEL FREE TO PM ME IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO