I recently went for a check up, and I found out that one of my little girls hearts isnt doing to well(they had done a fetal echocardiography about 5 or 6 weeks ago). They believe that she has some type of heart defect, but they can't be truely sure about anything until the twins are born. So to help with that and my own personal health (I have been really sick lately), my doctor has put me on bedrest for the remander of my pregnancy. He told me that I was still being WAY to active and that I just needed to slow it down abit. Does anyone have any advice as to the heart defect?

Other then that I am SO close to finishing my home. I have completed the family room, kitchen, 1 bathroom, my own bedroom. Now I am sooo close to being finished with the nursery and it looks goregous! I then still have to finish the other family room in our house, the other bathroom, dining room (I have been eating in the kitchen). I have decided to use my other room as a play room for my kids. I am soo excited but very scared at the same time.

Hey there lady. I would suggest you listen to your doctor. Can your dad help more, and take over the load from you. How much longer do you have till due? Be careful when working in older houses, about the black mold, and asbestos concerns. I do hope you are wearing an air mask, while painting.

Sit this out, and let dad do the rest.

Hey there to you too! Yeah I have been listening to him. It is hard for me though because I have always been an EXTREMELY active person. My dad found an apartment and he is moving into it OFFICALLY on the 23rd of October. Right now, he is back in Oklahoma (where I had lived since I was 7, then moved to New York City for college) packing up. Oh I have been whereing an air mask. The cause for my baby's heart problem- the doctor figures it is genetic. My grandfather died of a sudden heart attack and had many other heart problems and so did my mother. My dad has said that he would be happy to help me in anyway with my home once he is all settled here in Connecticut.

I will have been pregnant for about 33 weeks on Tuesday!

so you are getting really close thats exciting. yeah i was on bed rest with my first for 14 days so boring at least you are home I was in the hospital. Have you decided on names for the babies yet?

I have decided on the names Tatum and Teyah. I havent decided on middle names yet.

like the names they are different which is nice