Well sweetheart, I understand what you are going trough. I wanted a baby more hten anything when I was your age. I wanted to have something to love me all time no matter what I did. I wanted to have that best friend that would never hurt you and would never LEAVE YOU, butttttttt, I am now 28 and having my 1st baby. The father split, whihc i never thought would hurt, but it does. I cry my self to sleep sometimes because he left us. I never thought i would care in the dad was around but when you are pregnant everything changes.

NOT only that, but, OMG, being pregnant is not all like alot of ppl say. Its not all glam and happy. IT HURTS!!! you body hurts all the time. you cry alot. And what abou the THROWING UP!! I was so sick, I lost my job. I throw up everyday.

I would not change the fact that I am pregnant for the world but to have to go through it so young, thank GOD he saved it for my 28th year in life, so good luck to you sweetheart, and think twice b4 you make a choice!!

baby Gurl wrote:

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But I have a job..I deliever newspapers for my block and anyway id make my mom take care of it. my mom knows about babies

seriously? I really don't know if you are trying to be funny or playful here. But your statements remind me of those teen girls on the Maury Show, very immature!

How much do you make from your delivery job? The monthly earning you got there probably won't even add up enough to buy a stroller. And you expect your mother to take care of your baby? How can you stuff this responsibility to your own mother? And you call yourself responsible?

Oh please, stop this non-sense. A baby is not a toy for you to dress up cute when you feel like, and then hand it to someone else when you're not in the mood. If you just want something cute to play with, get a doll or get a pet! Not a baby!

what u need is a baby doll and a good spankin.... spoiled little girl...
what kind of a mother can u b?? u wanna dress it up and be all cute huh? what about when baby has colic and doesnt sleep for 6 days? what about when ur all dressed and ready to go out for the day with ur baby and he/she pukes all over you.. not her fault she has a belly ache and neither of u have slept in 6 days..
what about when u have no money, and u wont have alot at 14 with no education, and ur baby is hungry? how will u feed it? and whos gonna buy all the cute little baby clothes and stroller and crib and diapers and formula?/
wake up to urself girl... ur a child urself..
grow up!!

how much do you make on your paper route sweetie? $20 a month? guess what, that won't even get you a WEEKs worth of diapers. how about a crib? a stroller? FOOD? what about those cute outfits you want to dress 'em up in - you already spent your $20 on diapers, so you have a naked baby, with not enough diapers... I just bought a bunch of stuff for the babies I'm having, I don't even have a stroller yet and I've already spent about $4000. how long will it take you to realize you ARE NOT ready for a baby. get yourself an education, at least learn how to spell properly... and find yourself a HUSBAND and eventually when the time is right, you will have a baby, but you're 14... i'm DOUBLE (get that? thats 28) your age and I'm pregnant for the first time and I'm still wondering if I'm ready. Money is a BIG factor in having a baby whether you realize it or not. What are you going to do when you're 8months pregnant and CAN'T work anymore? Who's going to pay your bills in the first year when you CAN'T work? You think YOUR mother is going to take care of it? Are you nuts? Your mom has five already, if she WANTED another baby she would have one herself. She does NOT need her 14 year old poppin out babies.
This is ridiculous. Get a doll or a fish.

Baby gurl, first it may look like fun having a baby belly but it isnt that fun, second you get pregnant and have a baby don't just give it to your mom to take care of, my mom always said school, marriage and then kids and I didn't listen and now I am pregnant with twins (not fun). listen to your mom!!!


-Josephina

baby Gurl wrote:

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But I have a job..I deliever newspapers for my block and anyway id make my mom take care of it. my mom knows about babies

This is probably THE MOST ridiculous thing I have EVER heard.
There is absolutely no way in the world delivering newspapers could make enough money to have a baby.
Even finishing high school, and going to college, it is still difficult paying for all the things a baby needs.
You need doctor apps., food, clothes, a crib, stroller, car seat, etc. etc.
I'm 16 and I have a baby. I know what I'm talking about. It is NOT easy.
You think it is all fun and games, well its not.
What happens in the middle of the night and your baby runs a high fever?
How can YOU drive to get it to the emergency room?
You aren't even old enough to have a permit.
Your mom isn't going to do this for you.
She doesn't even want you to have a baby.
You think she is going to take care of it all by herself???
Well you are mistaken.
Go buy a baby doll, get a dog, babysit or something.
But you are nowhere near ready to have your own baby.
The things you say are just completely ridiculous.
If I would have chosen when to get pregnant, I would have definitely waited until I was in my 20s.
But now I have the responsibility of a human being, and you have no idea how hard it is.
You should find some type of class or something, that shows you having a baby isn't all flowers and sunshine.