Im looking for advice im 37 weeks preg and haveing problems in my marrage, alot of it is to do with his family,we were buying a house in 07 but at the last min she backed out and we lost allour money, his mum who is 79 said for us to move in with her as she was by herself. Anyways she was fine until i got preg last november then she changed towards me, i lost that baby and when i got preg again near enough straight away she has kicked me out so now im liveing with my mum and dad but my husband is stuck in the middle i dont know if to just split up for a while but all his family seem to be against me and we constently argue

I've never had my husbands family against me, and my family has never been against him, our marriage was planned and has worked out dreamfully well.
But talk to him, just you two, no one else. And think aboout just you and ur husband moving back together in an apartment, but dont let his family make you two divorce.

ok im just gonna say it bluntly. I think your husband is a coward if he didnt leave with you when you got kicked out. And Im a believer that once your married then you need to just have your own place and dont live with inlAWS or parents. That alone will cause huge fights.

we havebeen on the housing list since last year but coz i have 3 cats and will not get rid of them they wont give us a flat they say we have to wait for a house and its a3 year waiting list even though they know im pregnant and have been kicked out, my husband has moved out with me but his mum keeps putting guilt trips on him and its effecting him it dosnt help that ive been told that im not entitled to any benifits of the maternity grant so money is really tight, my mum and dad are great but i just feel ive payed my dues now im not entitled to help but all these forigners coming into the country get it all. it stinks