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but I doubt it's on anyone's list of 'goals in life'.

LOL

but anyhoo, im not getting involoved.

amylynn91 wrote:

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excuse me i was 16. the father walked out. and i still live with my mum and i am doing fine.
i work to support my baby and he misses out on nothing.
so dont even say that.
just because you thought i was wrong to have a child when you were in your teens doesnt mean its wrong for everyone.
im not making it out to be glamourous. but its not all bad.
i dont expect sympathy from anyone. i choose to have a baby young.
what country are you from?
maybe we see things differntly cos were from different countries.
im from australia and our government helps to suuport those who cant do it on there own.
im not in any way saying people should have babys to bludge off the government because i dont agree with that at all. i work and thats how i get my money. but in aus your not left on your own. there is support and support networks

I have chosen not to log on to this site because of this crap but unfortunatley this one has me going...

Who the hell do you think you are?????
I am also from Australia and it makes me sick to think that there are teenagers like you having more and more kids, bludging off the government where my husband is paying for you to have more kids... I couldn't care less that you "say" you work cos I bet all the money in the world you work as minimally as possible because you know full well the government will cover the rest of your financial needs quite easily while you are being the single mum you seem to enjoy being.... And I also bet that the baby bonus had absolutely nothing to do with you having a second child so close to your first childs age either considering you are how young???? HHHMMMMM very questionable in my eye's...

And as for Bexie..... You are one evil, dememnted and plain screwed up little girl to be having a go at Bexie because she can't have kids and in your eyes couldn't possibly know what it is like to care for a child 24/7.... You pathetic little troll.....

Who says you have to have your own child to know what that feels like??? Have you ever met Bexie??? Do you have even the tiniest inclining of what her real and personal life entails???? I didn't think so.... This women is prolly one of THE most well respected members on this site and offers some of the most amazing advice and answers to people on here and for you to go and bring into and argument that should have been left to die because you being a single mum, working hard to support your child all on your own with no help and being pregnant again you had so much time on your hands to be bringing this all back up again the fact that any member let alone Bexie can't have kids is just so wrong I am finding it so hard not to us the F-Bomb every second word..... If I was to be standing in front of you and heard you say the words you have in your last few posts I would so dropkick your ass it would be a sight for sore eyes...... Get a life and wake up to yourself.... If you can't read an entire thread and makes reasonable and respectable comments then you deserve the verbal crap you get and I hope get more than you have already...

I have said my piece and now I prolly won't log on again unless I see someone I care about being trashed again

BTW those that know me, hya

Hi...

work minimally so your husband will pay for me. no hunny i work a 38 hr week. and i also pay taxes so no im not just bludging.
so shows how much you know about me doesnt it.

and its not that im an angry person. i just dont like people talking about my kids.
any other time im a perfectly happy nice person

Can't it be generally agreed that encouraging teens to get pregnant is not the best idea in the world, and we can just drop it? Drama gives me a headache...