Hi, I'm Annie and I have 2 2 month olds (twins) who are from my previous marriage. My boyfriend Jaidyn who used to be my best friend wants us to have kids once we get married; but I'm not sure I want anymore but I don't know what to tell Jay (Jaidyn) cause he really wants a kid that looks like him and me. He even bought books and stuff so he can know everything when I'm pregnant and stuff. But I don't really know if I want another or not. What should I tell Jay so I don't break his heart?

The truth...I know it's hard but if you're going to be married you can't have him be on a different page than you. Either that or just tell him you don't want kids right now, maybe in the future. You may change your mind in the future when your twins get a little older.

Well, with a 2 month old, you shouldn't even think about getting pregnant for another ten months to give your body time to bounce back. At the end of the ten months you can revisit the decision, and you may decide that you still need a little one on two time with the twins before you bring another baby in to the situation. nIf he doesn't understand that (and after 10 months of helping you take care of 2 kids he should) then maybe he needs to go back to best friend status.

i totally agree with you Bexie!

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Well, with a 2 month old, you shouldn't even think about getting pregnant for another ten months to give your body time to bounce back. At the end of the ten months you can revisit the decision,

Not that she wants to, but why can't you fall pregnant until after 12 months of the previous baby?

My 2 children are 12 months apart in age so I conceived 3 months after my first. I haven't personally experienced any difficulties because of the gap.

Just wondering what could go wrong?

just tell him but there only 2 months old u might want more later