whewww atleast someone aggrees with me! thank you sjcdoug

Lily,
NO I am not saying that at all!!! Believe me!! I have nothing but respect for you and what you have done to help her!! My mom basically did the same thing with me and my husband (at the time boyfriend). He could not stand his mother's negativity so he moved in with my family! Keep up the good work!!

These other posters need to come to the realization that teens are going to do what they want and pushing no sex till marriage, I believe is not the way to go. I believe in explaining it and advising to do so, but to harp on it, will make the teen rebel!

Sorry Lily, I thought that your last post was towards me. So anyway, like I said keep doing what you are doing. Let her stay with you! They will definitely sneak around if you MAKE the separate!!

my parents were major weirdos growing up with me about sex, they werent like physco religious but they were like weird about it! like all they did was say NO to boys and everything, i got pregnant at 17 with my son! so i'm not going to be over his head like just saying no because than it'll just be like fuel to the fire

WOULD PEOPLE PLEASE GET BACK TO THE SUBJECT WE WERE ON AND STOP ALL THIS BICKERING! NON OF YOU PEOPLE KNOW WHAT lilya's
LIFE IS LIKE! YOU DON'T HAVE ANY RIGHT TO CRITICIZE WHAT HER LIFESTYLE IS, OR THE FACT THAT HER SON'S GIRLFRIEND LIVES WITH THEM. FOR ALL I KNOW, THIS STORY COULD BE A PAINFUL FOR lilya TO EVEN DISCUSS!
I don't think it's fair that COMPLETE strangers are saying the don't think it's right to have someone that's not family live with them. I understand people are just stating their opinions, but don't take it too far. Just say what you think, ask questions, and reply. If you don't agree with it, then tough! If you were in lilya's situation, then you'd do what YOU think is right. But anyway, thanks to the people who are being nice about this subject.

thank you