hi my name is ashley and i am a teen mother. i am 15 and i just gave birth to two twin girls.people say i am to young to have a baby and that it will ruin my ife but it didnt ruin my life. it changed my life dramatically and i love my lil girls to death and nobody can change that. People critizice us teen who are pregnant and us who have babies. I say yall need to give us a lil bit more credit than yall are givin us.Also i dont agre wit the othe post on teen pregnacy. People say that they ruin your relationship with your family and friends but that isnt necessarily true. My friends stuck beside me but my parents didnt supportme. My dad just started helping he was there the day they were born and he has been with me every since. So it does upset them but htey will always come around.

thank you,
Arabella's and Isla's mommy

well said Ashley

i encourage teen pregnancy i think its wonder to have teens having babies. I mean if your going to go out and have the sex without condoms then you should take the responsibility for you actions and take care of the baby. My daughter had her first baby when she was 17 and she loved every minute of having the baby she is now 22 and has 7 children.

I agree, by no means is having a baby going to ruin our lives. Most teen mothers dont think of it that way and are thrilled to have their own child... just because we arent considered an "adult" legally, doesnt mean we cant be as mature as one or be treated like one. I know plenty of twenty year olds that arent even near as responsible as me. So please everyone just stop saying that we are ruining our lives, because we definately dont think of it that way. Im sure most of us can be way better parents then the people that have children when they are older. Different people have different levels of maturity, it all depends on the person!

i didnt mean we are ruining our lives i jus meant people say that and it really upsets me and other teens

I know thats not what you meant... I just meant that for the people that think we are ruining our lives! I was making sure they know we arent