Here's my advice. I agree with Justins1favmom. She is trying to manipulate you, and you don't need to give in. Take it from a 30 year old who's been there, done that; not a 15 year old that's there now. I remember getting mad at my dad when he'd tell me no to something I wanted or thought at the time I really needed. I would do whatever I could get away with to try to make him feel bad and give in-kids do that. But you have got to stand your ground, or you will let her run over you and have her way and she'll think she can always do that. Children get mad when they want something and don't get their way, but parents should know that their answer is what is best for them even if the child does not see it at the time. I used to tell my dad about all the kids that got to go and do this and that, and he would tell me how that those kids didn't have parents that really cared about them either for letting them do whatever. Oh, I can really see it now how he was right. Children are happiest when they do have a loving family with rules and regulations. I'm not talking about not ever letting her go anywhere or do anything, but there should be limits and times you have to say no, even when she doesn't think it's fair.

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First off she is just testing you to see if you'll follow through! Kids may not even say or admit it but they are so eager and desperate to have rules and bounderies and disipline! Just me I know! And lately it seems that teenage girls are what teenage boys used to be! The role has pretty much switched around! You need to be strong and stick it through or she will know that if you ever say or do anything she dont like then all she will have to do is run away to get you to change your mind. when I was her age I and I didnt like what my parents said to me I used to go for a walk in the neighborhood to cool off or look like I was really going to run away, I also would open my window and hide under my bed to look like I ran away! When we are that age we test our parents to see if they are going to follow through or not! And if you have custody of her then chances are she hasnt really grown up with any rules or structure so now that you are setting them for her she will test you to see if you are firm! If you need someone to talk to or more advice feel free to pm me

These days a lot of us are NOT testing our parents... Trust me, I a, 15, and I know how it is right now... Sure, some want rules, but 90% of us do not want them... Now I, living 520.75 miles away from my girlfriend, know how hard it is to not be there with her, to not be there to hold her when she is crying.... To not be able to sneak out just because you couldn't stand being away from her, but I am forced to live a wretched life so far away, to not see her beautiful face, to kiss her on the forehead after a date...

But. I'm guessing your name is Kaelei right? Well, don't worry, just read what I have said, and hopefully he is like I am, and she is like my beloved Ashley, and that they want to wait, and just really wanted to see each other..

I know, I'm not a normal 15 year old boy, but who's judging what normal is? I am glad to be odd, or weird LOL, it means my life will be full of more twists xDDD

Oh. and has she came back yet??? Kaelei, if you want you can PM me for my phone number, I'm good at calming people down, and helping ^_^

First I need to say boys are 100 percent different than girls as a mother and a used to be willed (cant fiwure out the right spelling) teen Im going to yes she is testing you and teens my not think they want rules but deep down without you really knowing it they do! They need them. My husband grew up without rules or disiplen or structure and was as willed as can be he has admitted to me that he resents his parents for never really being parents and giving him structure or rules. And now because of it he doesnt really talk to them. he said what he really needed was a parent not a friend! and as for my parents they were very strict and had lots of rules when I was young I hated it I thought it was alwful but as I grew up I was so thankful that my parents were the way they were and did what they did to get my to quit acting up!

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Heyah
No She Is Not Back But My Sister And I Know Where She Is And I Know She Is Safe. She Left To Go Break Up With Her Boyfriend And Is Now Staying At Her Dad's Sisters House So Shes Safe And Too Embarssed To Come Home Because She Knows Shes In The Wrong. Now I Know Where She Is Im So Much More Calm. She Said She'd Be Home Tomorrow.

Thanks
Xx
Kaelei

P.s
Yes My Name Is Kaelei

See, there you go... Wonder why she went to break up with him after that??? I dunno, to me it sounds a little fishy, but what do I know... LOL But yeah, if you need anything PM me, and if you want my cell number, then ask...

~Bryant

Thank you so much happy2beme Im glad that someone else agrees with me and understanding what im saying its just that 15 yr old boy upsetted me so much cus hes a child and doesnt have a clue on parenting or even being a teenage girl

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Justins1favmom wrote:

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First off she is just testing you to see if you'll follow through! Kids may not even say or admit it but they are so eager and desperate to have rules and bounderies and disipline! Just me I know! And lately it seems that teenage girls are what teenage boys used to be! The role has pretty much switched around! You need to be strong and stick it through or she will know that if you ever say or do anything she dont like then all she will have to do is run away to get you to change your mind. when I was her age I and I didnt like what my parents said to me I used to go for a walk in the neighborhood to cool off or look like I was really going to run away, I also would open my window and hide under my bed to look like I ran away! When we are that age we test our parents to see if they are going to follow through or not! And if you have custody of her then chances are she hasnt really grown up with any rules or structure so now that you are setting them for her she will test you to see if you are firm! If you need someone to talk to or more advice feel free to pm me

These days a lot of us are NOT testing our parents... Trust me, I a, 15, and I know how it is right now... Sure, some want rules, but 90% of us do not want them... Now I, living 520.75 miles away from my girlfriend, know how hard it is to not be there with her, to not be there to hold her when she is crying.... To not be able to sneak out just because you couldn't stand being away from her, but I am forced to live a wretched life so far away, to not see her beautiful face, to kiss her on the forehead after a date...

But. I'm guessing your name is Kaelei right? Well, don't worry, just read what I have said, and hopefully he is like I am, and she is like my beloved Ashley, and that they want to wait, and just really wanted to see each other..

I know, I'm not a normal 15 year old boy, but who's judging what normal is? I am glad to be odd, or weird LOL, it means my life will be full of more twists xDDD

Oh. and has she came back yet??? Kaelei, if you want you can PM me for my phone number, I'm good at calming people down, and helping ^_^

First I need to say boys are 100 percent different than girls as a mother and a used to be willed (cant fiwure out the right spelling) teen Im going to yes she is testing you and teens my not think they want rules but deep down without you really knowing it they do! They need them. My husband grew up without rules or disiplen or structure and was as willed as can be he has admitted to me that he resents his parents for never really being parents and giving him structure or rules. And now because of it he doesnt really talk to them. he said what he really needed was a parent not a friend! and as for my parents they were very strict and had lots of rules when I was young I hated it I thought it was alwful but as I grew up I was so thankful that my parents were the way they were and did what they did to get my to quit acting up!

Okay, I am not 100% different than girls.. This is how I know a lot about them, I am more of a romantic guy, that knows pretty much everything about how girls act, the reason for this, is I always hung around girls... Another thing, yes we need rules, but we do not want them... Also you were looking for the word wild..

Anyways, sorry if I seem to be taking sides or whatever, I am just telling you from how my life is at this point in time... Trust me, I know without rules, life is tough, and you will make a lot of mistakes, my life was like that until a few months ago when we went entirely broke and had to move back in with my grandparents... I literally was a father to my 2 little brothers for their whole life, my dad was always gone for months at a time, and only was at home for maybe 3 days at a time... And guess what, it's not from his job, no, he had no job... He was hanging with his "buddies" and I know they don't want me to know this, but he also did drug runs for people... So I pretty much had to set rules for my brothers, and my mom would enforce her rules on me, but not on my brothers, and when I would try to do enforce rules on them, I would get in trouble... But yet she would expect me to look after them, and all that stuff...

Trust me, us teens don't want rules, we want to live our lives in this minute not having to worry about past or future... I am now living for the future, whe I know I should be for the present...

Sorry to be a pest...