I went through my closet the other day. I had bags of clothes for my yard sale that I never got to have yet. I called my grandma asked her if my cousin (she's 14) wanted to go through them. Grandma said yes she wanted to go through them. So she came to my house Saturday and went through the two bags of jeans I had. She wouldn't come out and let us see if she could wear the jeans. She ended up taking one bag of jeans. My mom told her she knew she couldn't wear some of them but she took them anyway - FREE of charge because she's family. My mom gave her some shoes and shorts also. My grandma asked her if she thanked us and she said "Yeah" sarcastically and then when she was walking to the car she said "No" sarcastically. She was being such a smart alec the whole day (it was her birthday party too). She was being a spoiled brat. She didn't thank anyone for the gifts she got from them. She got gifts plus $70. She said "All I got was $70". Give me $70 and I'll be grateful. I was really frustrated at her.

The more I thought about it the madder I got. My mom and I were nice enough to give her our clothes and not charge her a dime and also give her birthday gifts and then she acts this way. I called my grandma and told her to tell my cousin to try the jeans on again and let my grandma see if they all fit her and what she could not wear to send back to me for my yard sale. If you say anything to my grandma who pretty much raises her she just says "she's a teenager". Well to me that's no excuse. My other teenage cousins don't act like this. She is such a smart alec to my grandmother. My mom tells her she should appreciate my grandma raising her and always doing things for her and that one day she'll wish she appreciated her more if something were to happen to her. My grandma just had surgery and my cousin won't even wash a dish for her. I think she's old enough to help around the house and know how to act around people. Sorry for the long post but I'm just so aggravated with her.

What a spoiled brat. I know I wasn't like that all the time two years ago.

But then, maybe something's wrong. If I were upset about something, I pretty much hated everyone and was acting like an ungrateful spoiled little b!tch too.

I know. I mean I was a teenager not long ago but I appreciated things alot more than my cousin. I had my "spoiled brat" moments too but they passed thank God. She's acted like this for awhile now. I don't think anything is wrong. I just think she's used to getting her way about everything and she gets anything she asks for from her dad and grandma. She got mad one day about some food and threw a pillow across the room. It hit my grandma's angel that my other cousin had gotten her for Christmas and shattered it to pieces.

I'd like to have a few words with your cousin. She needs some serious attitude adjustment. But, you never know, there really could be something wrong. I never told my parents about boy, or friend troubles, or teasing. I'd just talk to her, and if there really is nothing wrong, spank her for forever and a day.

I am the same age as your cousin... and I dont act like that all the time...yes we are teenagers but we shouldnt act like that...and i admit..that i am a spoiled little girl and i some times act like a brat...but i appreciate the stuff i have I say thank you and I mean it..Most of my cloths are hand me downs from my older cousin and i dont complain..I appreciate that...The spoiled brats i see running around getting everything they want..New cloths..new school supplies..fancy cell phones and laptops and dont appreciate all that and need to look at people that dont have that stuff..that get hand me downs and old school supplies..that dont have a cell phone or a laptop... and yet they are all happy with their lives...The spoiled brats need to look at them and learn that they should appreciate what they have...
Sry but ppl like your cousin make me mad

She has a good life with alot of people who care for her but she just seems to be in a phase or something where she doesn't realize how good she has it.