im honestly surprised about how well you took it i fell pregnant when i was 16 with a boy i barely knew the only reason i had sex was one to spite my mother and two because he pressured me into it unfortunatly i had a miscarriage when riding my horse i didnt think nothing of it because i didnt run or trot with her at the time but someone shot a gun off in my woods and my horse started bucking and when i fell it was on rocks and i fell front first. so i lost it that was the worst time of my life lol sorry im just rambeling i just wanted to let you know some of the reasons teens have sex plus they think its the cool thing to do but i know you all will be fine you sound like an amazing woman when it comes to your children. good luck with everything

Jordan
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thats what my mum will do with my baby she hated i got pregnant at first. now Aaliyah will be a spoiled brat lol

and about the whole if kids knew what consequences of sex where i knew and it never stopped me from having sex. i stared at 13 never use protection wasn't on the pill till i was 16. i didn't catch anything so i didn't stop i knew but i Didn't care

Just over a year ago now my brother came home and told me his girlfriend was pregnant. He was a few days shy of 16. I absolutely freaked out. It was a well known fact that him and his girlfriend broke up all the time and that she cheated on him. They were not in a stable relationship.

For almost 2 months I had to keep it a secret. I don't always get along with my brother but we were close so I felt I had to keep it.

As it turned out the girlfriend had made it up to spite my mother! I'm ashamed to admit that I'm no where near as close to my brother as I was before.

He came to me for help and I did my best. He knew for a whole three weeks that she wasn't pregnant before he told me.

He isn't my son, but I knew for a short time what it was like to look after a young father to be.

If my brother had told me that instead of he was gonna quit school to move across the country to live with his GF and her 1yr old (not his kid) when they have only dated ONLINE I might have taken things better. I flipped out and I told her that if she broke his heart that I would break every bone in her body. He wasn't too happy but he found out that she was sleeping with this guy that she was "friends" with. He is now trying to work things out with her and now she lives a few hours from me it is temting to pay her a visit though not worth it. If I didn't have my baby to think of I so would and she was a teen mom herself. I don't have a thing against teen parents as long as they take care of their kid. I know that I had sex at 14 cuz I wanted to see if I would like it more if I wanted to have sex and I didn't so I stopped. I started again after about 2 years and thought that the guy was gonna stay we broke up a few years later.

I want to thank you all for the kind words, I don't see myself as an amzing mum or anything even close really, I yell at my kids and even on the odd odd occassion they will even get a quick spank on the butt if they are really naughty but I will honestly say that my life would not be worth living if it weren't for my children... Even though I became a mum 1 month after I turned 16 I wouldn't change it for the world.... It doesn't matter what your kids do, think or say the fact that my kids are mine is what matters and I will do anything to keep them close to me in every which way possible and I would never give up on my kids either even when I'd love to sometimes and I say to them at times "I give up" even they know I sooooo couldn't just stop being their mum cos they made a mistake cos thats what my father did to me and my kids know I'd rather die then resemble my father in any way....

So if that makes me a great mum then so be it but I know so many women who are much better mothers than me and other women who don't have kids but I know even they would be greater mothers than myself....

All I do is my best for my kids and hope for the best and thats really all any mother can do

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If my brother had told me that instead of he was gonna quit school to move across the country to live with his GF and her 1yr old (not his kid) when they have only dated ONLINE I might have taken things better. I flipped out and I told her that if she broke his heart that I would break every bone in her body. He wasn't too happy but he found out that she was sleeping with this guy that she was "friends" with. He is now trying to work things out with her and now she lives a few hours from me it is temting to pay her a visit though not worth it. If I didn't have my baby to think of I so would and she was a teen mom herself. I don't have a thing against teen parents as long as they take care of their kid. I know that I had sex at 14 cuz I wanted to see if I would like it more if I wanted to have sex and I didn't so I stopped. I started again after about 2 years and thought that the guy was gonna stay we broke up a few years later.

OMG I swear if that was the situation that one of my sons ever got themselves into I would KILL the girl, I sooooo wouldn't hold back.... My boys know exactly how over protective of them I am and they know I'd kill a girl if she did that to my boys....

I just hope like hell that this baby really is my sons or I will strangle the girl after all the help and support I have given to her.... I do believe it is my sons baby but still IF and a big IF it was ever to turn out one day that it wasn't I would go rank on her ass....