It not know why it took two weeks but they obvouisly had to do a post mortem etc. and it usually takes that amount of time.

And ashleym09 i have read recent comments on this site and now this one and i would appreciate it if you did not treat people like they are dumb, i do not care what you don't understand and if you have nothing nice of helpful to say i would appreaciate it if you did not comment on other people's posts like you have. You would think very differently in my situation i can assure you.

Phoebe, ShaeWare and Sydney Raye have been very kind and helpful and i am very happy they understand my situation and have something nice to say.

Stacey.x

i think u should tell ur husband beacause thats ur husband and trust is everything

I am very sorry for your loss i know how hard it is to lose some1 close to you that is not family you are not dure how you feel.
If you feel you do not want to tell your husband then you dont need to it is your money. but this money is for your sons so you do need to tell him you have come into money so if needs be telll him that a wealthy distant family member has left you money.
i hope you feel better soon xxxxx