Are you sure you and your hubbie are really on the same page when it comes to having kids?

I remember you saying before (at least I think it was you) that your hubbie told you that he wasnt so keen on the idea and didnt know why you wanted it so bad... Or something. I have a bad memory, so I might be wrong.

He could just be humoring you with the idea that he wouldnt mind having them, just because he knows you probably wont be able to have one without fertility treatment.

But I dont know your husband, so I could be way off base here.

T, I think it's important to think about God's will vs. our will. God will allow us to do things against His will...I know I do it all the time, but that doesn't mean He wants us to. Hope that makes sense.

You can start doing ferility treatment and if it's God's will for your not to get pregnant you won't for awhile...but He does allow us to do things our way if we refuse HIs way. I'm not saying it is HIs will for you not to have natural children, I'm just encouraging you to keep it in mind (I'll be praying for you on the 6th!!!)

Okay, I just have to get this out here: God's will? Are you serious? I am a christian, and I do beleive in God, I just get sick of all the 'God's will' and 'God's plan' crap. I can't stand preachy things, especially when it comes to God. >P

I sincerely apologize if I've offended anyone, but I just don't know how much more of it I can stand.

He's probably just freaked out because of crazy octo-mom, so check the side effects.

It will work itself out, divine intervention or no.

Harlow Nicole wrote:

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Okay, I just have to get this out here: God's will? Are you serious? I am a christian, and I do beleive in God, I just get sick of all the 'God's will' and 'God's plan' crap. I can't stand preachy things, especially when it comes to God. >P

I sincerely apologize if I've offended anyone, but I just don't know how much more of it I can stand.

He's probably just freaked out because of crazy octo-mom, so check the side effects.

It will work itself out, divine intervention or no.

omg i love you lol it annoys me to im not a believer but it can get so annoying when ppl preach about it

Harlow, Aunt T is a Christian, so I try to give her Biblical advice She and I believe in the same things and have the same goal in life.

allyfally wrote:

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Are you sure you and your hubbie are really on the same page when it comes to having kids?

I remember you saying before (at least I think it was you) that your hubbie told you that he wasnt so keen on the idea and didnt know why you wanted it so bad... Or something. I have a bad memory, so I might be wrong.

He could just be humoring you with the idea that he wouldnt mind having them, just because he knows you probably wont be able to have one without fertility treatment.

But I dont know your husband, so I could be way off base here.

I think you've confused me with someone else. He has always said he wants kids but he wanted to wait until we had been married 5 to 6 years but I talked him into trying in 2006 or 2007. He just seems really nervous about it. He just wants one baby at a time but he said a day or so ago that if I did end up with multiples that we would just have a house full of kids. His mom said she knows he wants a baby but he's just really scared about it.