The only people that have ever touched my stomach while I was pregnant have been my husband and my oldest daughter. It might partially be because I don't ever really get big enough for people to realize that I'm actually pregnant and not just fat. I wouldn't mind if people did touch my belly, though. I think I'd just kinda like the attention.

MummaMac wrote:

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Steff Kim wrote:

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i haven't had randoms just friends they don't ask and when im around them they just touch it all the time and don't stop like i went to go put a load of washing on and they started touching it again so i sat there till they left and got peter to do stuff for me lol

They sound great lol

no not to me

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I HATE when people touch my belly. I just hate when people come into my personal space uninvited. There are only a few people that I would let touch my belly and they don't want to so I'm all set. And I also hate being told how big I'm getting. Thanks everyone I hadn't noticed.

oh i hate that to like you dont feel shitty enough sometimes about how big you are and ppl just like to keep telling you id like to punch them sometimes lol. your lucky i dont wanna tell my friends i dont like it i feel bad lol

Well, I'm 6' and have always been on the smaller side and incredibly huge about eating healthy and getting to my martial arts lessons. Now I can't so I'm gaining a bit of weight and my best friend and family are laughing that I had to give it up. Now they love to point out my weight gain cuz I freaked about 5lbs I gained on vacation. In a way it helps cuz it makes me think that there is more to life now than just my goals now there is my son.

The only person that annoyed me when it came to touching my belly was my son's Aunt Ashley. I would say "The baby's moving again." And she would fly across the living room to put her hands on my stomach without even asking me first. Everyone else would always ask. Denin didn't like his sperm donar touching me and would literally kick his hand or arm off, and he would completely stop moving if his aunt was touching me.

I don't mind people touching, if they ask first, and then it depends on what kind of mood I am in if I grant them permission. But straight up touching me without my permission is unwanted physical contact.

I never touched my mom's belly uninvited when she was having my sister and I won't ask either. I think that it feels really neat and everything but if they want me to touch the belly they will invite me to. Of course that's just my opinion and I'm really big on respecting people's space.