Hiya, just wanted to say I really feel for you. I am 24 and having my second child and still scared, so I cant begin to understand how you feel with twins and being young, I think that you are old enough to know what you want out of life and wheather you want a career first or a family, You sound quite mature and you mention your boyfriend so it's good he's sticking around, maybe you could try talking to your midwife alone and see if it helps. I think if you move in with his family it may cause a bigger rift between you and your dad and you may find his parents taking over a bit, I noticed you didnt mention your mum, is she not in the picture? maybe your older sister could help you? but remember only you can decide it's your body and your life, you need to choose the path you want to take. take care. x