well i have t mobil so i have the favs ppl lol i have my mom on that and my sister has the same plan so its free to talk to them i just like seeing them when i talk to them i know i have an excuse for everything but thats the way it seems something is always in the way i just wish i lived closer it would be so much easier. im so afraid that im going to be so far away and someone would pass away and i couldnt get there that would kill me.

Ok chickie thinking like that is seriously gonna drive you bonkers.....

You need to occupy yourself to stop thinking about how alone you are... Are there any mothers groups near you you could attend or even maybe volunteer at a child care centre or school to take your mind off things????

I know how hard it is with family and friends and being far away from them.... I never really new what a family was like til I met my hubby and his family, I could never see myself moving far away from them at all it would kill me, my hubby but most importantly my kids, they are obsessed with nanny and poppy...

Have you got your period yet???? And have you done a test????

It might explain a few things

well im not a mom yet my husband and i are trying lol so i dont think i could join a mothers group i guess i could volunteer at the local animal shelter my passion is animals im going to college right now for nursing then once im done there and get settled in im going for my vet tech and yeah i had my period last week well i think anyways usually they last 5 days and i mean always last 5 days and this time it only lasted 2 days so i was a lil confused. but no i havent taken a test do you think i should?? but how would that explain things?? im just worried this problem may caue bigger problems between me and my husband. do u think occupying myself would help out???????

I just thought that if you were early pregnant then maybe the hormonal change could be the reason for the sudden depression and if your period was very short then wait til you are due for your next period and see what happens....

You can join a mothers group if you don't have a baby or atleast you can here in australia anyways, but the animal shelter thing sounds like a great idea...

As for it possibly causing prob's between you and the hubby just make sure you both take the time to sit and talk things through as they occur, don't let it build up cos thats when things can get jumbled and explained in the wrong way, make sure he knows fully he is not to blame for the way you feel it is just how you feel, you're a female and unfortunately we do, say and think things that have no reasoning behind them and thats is just how we are, the last thing you want is for your hubby to feel like it is all his fault... Men who are madly inlove with their partners tend to feel blame in the oddest ways I think personally and it really is just a matter of keeping the communication channels wide open and be honest with how you feel, maybe go see your doctor aswell cos you may be slipping into a depressed state and they may be able to help also

And yes occupying yourself will deffinately help cos it will take your mind of everything in a big way and you will be doing something you enjoy... There is nothing worse than being kept in a house all day or being by yourself all day that is enough to cause anyone to be institutionalised LOL

god i hope i am pregnant that would be the best thing to happen to me well my [eriods are wacky i get em every once in a blue moon seriously lol i get em about once every 4 to 6 months maybe less but here lately theyve been coming every 2 months so ummm idk lol but i tell him its not his fault that i chose to move here to live with him but hod i hope i am pregnant that would be the best thing to happen to me well my [eriods are wacky i get em every once in a blue moon seriously lol i get em about once every 4 to 6 months maybe less but here lately theyve been coming every 2 months so ummm idk lol but i tell him its not his fault that i chose to move here to live with him but he still feels bad and im afraid i am going to slip into depression from this.

you can always leave hubby at home and take a few day trip to see your friends and family once a month or so that's what my so does his family live about 4 hours away he catches a bus down even if i cant afford to go he does and its good to be apart and he comes home happy cos hes been with friends and family