I watch a program called the maury show and on there sometimes you have girls that have lost their virginity at the age of like 11 or 12 one said she was 9 dont if i belive that or not but, they all want kids but there going out stealing, doing drugs and having sex with random lads to get pregnant. I think that is the thing I find most annoying cause they say they want someone to love but they have their parents to love them.
There was 1 girl that inspired me on the show though I cant remember her name but she got pregnant at 15 and after she had her daughter she went back to school and graduated top of her class and that makes me think that there are girls that are good mothers but like 15+ and all the team mothers on here i know some of you have been raped and some of you have split up with the fathers but I admire you that your still rasing you kids or will raise them when they are born.

'Most' of them drop out of school and dont have a proper education or get a job.

If I was a teen mother then it would be ok with me maybe not my parents well depending on the father concodering I can never find the right lad . But if i got pregnant I'd still go to college and become a hairdresser cause its my dream job.

x Kelly-Marie x

MamaTinkerBell wrote:

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Really, I wish that you would stop taking offense to everything that I say and realize that I'm not bashing you I could bash you but that would solve nothing and I refuse to do it. I'm saying that this is hard on me and I'm 5yrs older than you. I can drive, I have a car, and work and do all that stuff but I still have my head in my hands worried that I will fail. You're 15 and I don't even think that you have a permit yet or you might I have no idea but do you own your own vehicle to get your baby to the dr or anywhere else that you need to go? I'm just saying that things might have been easier if you had waited at least until after high school. That is not bashing that is stating a hard to swallow fact and I'm sorry. I don't think that another site will baby you either cuz the world is full of teen parents and all of them that have actually grown up wish that they had waited. I hope thatyour family will continue to help you and support you but eventually you have to do it on your own.

yeah, so i do have my permit, i get my license end of december/beginning of january, and i do have a car already. i've realized that things would be easier if i waited. but i didn't. and i didn't get pregnant on purpose, and i wasn't looking for another site to "baby" me. i'm not asking or hoping for anybody here to baby me. i don't like that. i was just going to go to another site to look for names. but i've decided on one. and my family will help. and my friends. the close ones.. and i plan on getting a job after i have my baby and get my license so i don't have to depend on my parents b/c ever since i was little i've been an independent girl, unless for some reason i couldn't do things myself.. bc of an injury, or something small like that. and i plan to save my money, and use what i need for my baby, and for gas and things that i NEED. i've already had a talk with my mom, i know it'll be hard, and i know i have a lot of responsibilites all on me now. and i know that. and i'm all for it. k?

you really all are low.
Im happy tbh and i don't need this website to show not all teen mums are bad. You all must think your purfect aye.
don't except me to comment on anymore of you comments in this becuase i am not that bothered about what you all have to say.
i belive i am a good mother thanks, and i love it and my kids.

We're not trying to bother you. We're trying to stop you from telling teens to go have a baby because they want one.

We never said you were a bad mother, or that you don't love your kids. I think that we can all believe that you obviously love your daughter and unborn son very very much and do the best you can. We just said that are girls out there who are horrible teen mothers, and the last thing we need is more, and encouraging teens to become parents young is not really the best way to prevent this.

And no, we aren't perfect, but neither are you.

Wow, i am having second thoughts on this. Dezzy, I think you have changed my mind. My seven year old Nephew got a baby sister in December and he says he wants his own baby. I think I am just gonna tell him to go for it. I mean, he really really wants one of his own to play with, so he should just be able to have one because he wants it. i have never seen him beat his sister up or hurt her, and he knows how to feed her, too, so he is surely ready to be a parent. Gosh, thanks for your logic, Dezzy. You have made me see the error of my ways.

Bexie_08 wrote:

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Wow, i am having second thoughts on this. Dezzy, I think you have changed my mind. My seven year old Nephew got a baby sister in December and he says he wants his own baby. I think I am just gonna tell him to go for it. I mean, he really really wants one of his own to play with, so he should just be able to have one because he wants it. i have never seen him beat his sister up or hurt her, and he knows how to feed her, too, so he is surely ready to be a parent. Gosh, thanks for your logic, Dezzy. You have made me see the error of my ways.

LMAO