I don't think age matters. You should find out if you're expecting and go from there. Good luck.

You know what to do in time... . Things happens for a reason.. Who knows why.. Im not gonna say ur too young or that ur bf is too old.. I dont judge anyone... Basically it aint ur fault u got prego me myself im 24 an dat ur age yes i wa on BCPS ''borth control pils" and i hated them bc they was the reason why i was having serious migranes i cant say anythin much but maybe da mixing of the pills collapsed against eachother and just dont work 2gether. Now a days i dont trust doctors always have a 2nd opinion and find out wat really happend bc probably da mixin of the two pills caused u to have migranes so either way u was gonna have to stop takin either one.
Talk to your doctor and your boyfriend and find out whats goin on.
Stay in contact and just relax.... ok mamaz.. Gluck..

I don't believe things happen for a reason-all of those starving children in Africa that are dying; why? What's the reason for that?
Sorry, not attacking you Beatrixxe but I feel really strongly on this..

Hmmm, nothink like a little statutory rape to bring out the best in a teenager.

What your boyfriend did the moment he touched you sexually is against the law and he is a criminal. I am so sorry you feel you are in love with a creatin that thinks having sex with children is ok. I doubt your parents (or the law for that matter) will feel it is ok. And while pregnancy would be an absolute ticket to jail for your abuser, it seems a bit mean to have a child just to identify a sexual predator.

Take a test, see a doctor, talk to your parents, and see a shrink.

Yo yo yiggity yo! take a chill pill!

First off, this girl does not need to see a shrink as said at the end of Bexie_08's completely pointless comment.


and Secondly, she asked for ADVICE. GOOD ADVICE. Something that could help her. Not hurt her. You aren't helping at all by saying her BOYFRIEND is a child molester, Bexie. And by saying,for most who commented on this, "You're too young. You aren't mature." It isn't helpful at all. And as I've been taught through out my life, if you aren't going to say something NICE, or helpful considering this topic, then keep your damn mouth shut.

LOVE IS LOVE no matter what. I agree she is a bit young. And her boyfriend could get into a TON of trouble. But, keep in mind that she was mature enough to go get on BC in the first place.
BUT Just because she doesn't live her love life by most standards, does NOT mean it's entirely wrong. But, I do, to some degree believe it is a little off.

She's a sweet girl who was responsible enough to seek out advice right? Instead of not caring and just blowing it off like a lot of kids I knew did when I was in high school. She doesn't even know for sure if she is prego. And she's already seeking advice.

At least try a little to give her the benefit of the doubt. Most of us on here are adults. It's a rough time for her.

Ariele, I sent you a Private message to your inbox. I was just using this comment section to b!tch at everyone who WASN'T helpful.

and by the way, I am completely open to taking on anyone who would like to argue with me.
Thanks!

First off, Bexie was speaking her mind, just like everyone else on this site, including you, Miss Mandy. And to think that at the age of 15 and having sex with a man who is almost 20 and more then likely about to leave her because he is getting into his wild years (20-28 for most young men) and may not want this child that she has more then likely entraped him with, is responsible is off the rocker and you should also see a shrink. Love has no age limit, true, but the law does. And what they did was illegal.

And second off, while she was "mature enough" to get on birth control and tell her boyfriend she was on it, she wasn't "mature enough" or responsible enough to take it as perscribed, and neither of them were responsible enough to still use condoms. Oh and, to the OP, "pulling out" is only 73% effective. There is still a 27% chance of getting pregnant due to pre-cum, which is discharged within the natural lubricants the male erection produces. I was informed of that by my own doctor when I was 20 and had a close call. Also, you may be in love with him, but he may not be truly in love with you. He could just be using you because you are giving him what he wants, sex. But then again, I don't know either of ya'll, I am just stating somethings that come to mind based on a few of my own past experiences.

TO THE ORIGINAL POSTER:
Now, on to helpful comments for the OP. Sweetie, you need to take a home a pregnancy test. Also if you remember when your last menstrual cycle was would also help you in determining if you are pregnant or not. If you are then you need to talk to your parents, go to a doctor, and start on prenatal care. Make sure you find a really good OB/GYN. And make sure it is one that will not discriminate against your age and will give you the care you need if you are pregnant.

However, if you are not pregnant, I still highly suggest that you find an OB/GYN to see for your birthcontrol. And whenever you go to a doctor's appointment and they ask you are you on any kind of medication, make sure you in form them that you are on birthcontrol and what kind you are on. That will help them determine what kind of medication you can go on that will not effect your birthcontrol. Also if you cannot remember to take the pills on time or everyday, maybe you should consider changing the form of birthcontrol you are on, to one that is more simple, like the vaginal ring, or the depo, those are just two, there are plenty more options that are not pills and more effective.