I'm a mom to 14 kids (yours, mine and ours family) plus doing foster care. Listen to your mom, she can become one of your closest friends right now because she has your best interest at heart. Early this year, I got a new grandbaby. my daughter is still unmarried, and although I do not agree with her choice to have pre-marital sex, I do support her and her decisions. Unlike you, she was slightly over 18 and legally able to choose for herself. This is where I would recommend to try and have a conversation with your mom-listen-do not just hear each others views. Come to some decisions toghether as to what will be best not only now, but in the future. Good luck in your decisions.